StayOrLeave Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Im going to try and make this as simple and as quick as possible in hopes for some more advice. Long story short, Im currently dating a girl in the military overseas. We dated earlier this year but broke it off due to long distance. We continued to chat on and off while she dated atleast 2 people (that I know of) overseas (not much contact during these times and they were very short lived). She came home for a month and during this time I spent a good two weeks (almost the whole last week) with her. She was hot and cold at times towards me, no sex but we would sleep together and there would be kissing). After she went back we would be back to talking daily and video chatting. About 2 weeks ago we made it official again (her suggestion). This time she said she wasnt going to have any second doubts and she was in it for the long haul. About a week ago she told me she was falling in love with me via text. I tried to ignore it for a second and I got yelled at. She comes back to the states in a little less than 2 months and has been asking me to move out there with her (several thousand miles away). This is a possibility due to some networking I have done and I would be able to have a better job (not as fun) and not know anyone but in general better for me. She is thrilled about this and weve talked about it a bunch. Heres where my problem lies. Quite a bit often I feel that I dont get as much attention as I give her. IE: - she tells me she will text me in the morning when she wakes up but doesnt until later in the day - ill text her and shell read the text but not respond - we wont talk all day unless i text her (ive been doing the opposite and she usually texts first but later in the day) Now all this is fine really, she could be busy with things and I understand that and allow it....but the thing that bothers me the most is that shell be on Facebook or something and just sitting there. Ive confronted her about it before and she knows its one of my biggest pet peeves and she said she would try and keep her promises (texting when she wakes up) etc. Ive done the same thing back to her both 1) Just sit and wait to respond to texts, she will send multiples like hellllooooo - where are you? what are you doing?! etc etc 2) Read the texts and then sit back and i get a response of "you know i can see you read my texts right???" How do I handle this? Its currently happening again right now. - Should I text her and just pretend like nothings going on. - Should I wait for her to text me? - Should I confront her again? Visually she makes our relationship known as it is "facebook official" and she also has a profile picture of us on the only app she is able to talk to people overseas (to avoid huge charges). Granted she can just say its a fake relationship or something.
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