sergior986 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 About two months ago I met this gorgeous fun and smart mexican girl. We have been dating for the most part since we met. At the beginning, she was very open and flirty, invited me to her parties and just made me feel invited and welcomed. I invited her to Puerto Vallarta (good place for couples to spend time) and we had an even greater good time. During our stay, I caught her texting with her ex. So I did not mind and just told her not during our stay and she kindly put her phone away. Three weeks later, she has become really distant. Asking for space during the week (not seeing everyday) she keeps telling me that she did not want a serious relationship because she just got her new apt but has not pulled out and she is also getting acostumed to living on her own. So I find every "I need time" an excuse, but then her friends tell me she is a very cold person. That she is not that best at having relationships. She calls me at night every day just to talk and texts me during the day. I came out of a 5 year relationship. So I have had experience at dating and relationships but this is all new to me. Sounds like shes playing me. What do you loveshackers think?
Tony T Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Her FRIENDS have told you she's a cold person...a VERY cold person (That's what you wrote). Now armed with that information, what are you trying to do? If you want her to warm up set her on fire. That's the only thing that's going to do it. Move on. There are MILLIONS of wonderful ladies out there looking for a guy like you. Why hang with someone you have no chance of changing. Her friends know her best!!! Play her game. Start being distant....and stay that way. Be kind to yourself. 1
Adele0908 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 It sounds like she is just having fun living life, so just follow suit
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