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[ShySeth]

I met this girl online 7 months ago and then we started dating back in May. We been through a lot as far as hurting each other, I was supposed to come see her and could not at the last minute and she broke up with me because she could not wait any longer and no longer believed anything I said...

 

Just wondering if she will ever come back? She called me saying she doesn't wanna get back together right now but I am still hoping maybe eventually she does.

[coolheadal]

I met this girl online 7 months ago and then we started dating back in May. We been through a lot as far as hurting each other, I was supposed to come see her and could not at the last minute and she broke up with me because she could not wait any longer and no longer believed anything I said...

 

Just wondering if she will ever come back? She called me saying she doesn't wanna get back together right now but I am still hoping maybe eventually she does.

 

Why couldn't you make it? She's given up hope already on you. If she had called to say that then best to move on. If she didn't then she had hope for you both. That's not the case now.

[r321148]

I don't think there's any way anyone can know if she'll come back.

You've not really given a lot of detail here. If you managed to hurt each other a lot in just 7 months then that isn't a great sign but it depends what you mean by that.

You not being able to make a date seems like a weak reason to break up with you so I'm guessing more had gone before it and this was just the last straw?

I know you're hoping she'll come back but only she can make that decision. You can't make her come back but your actions can ensure that she doesn't. The best thing to do here is to just focus on what's right for you. Join a club, play a sport, throw yourself into your work, climb a mountain, travel somewhere new.... Just enjoy life. Life is way too short to keep pining after someone who doesn't want you. Live for today and then if she comes back then you can reassess as and when.