ponchsox Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 I actually feel much, much better the last two days after my ex broke off our 1.5 year relationship very unexpectedly 7 days ago. I haven't called her but have been texting her about remaining as friends. She wants to also but she needs more time before she's ok as being friends. I can't figure out if I'm just an emotionally strong or maybe I feel ok without her? Either way, I feel like I can date again soon!!
organizedchaos Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 I actually feel much, much better the last two days after my ex broke off our 1.5 year relationship very unexpectedly 7 days ago. I haven't called her but have been texting her about remaining as friends. She wants to also but she needs more time before she's ok as being friends. I can't figure out if I'm just an emotionally strong or maybe I feel ok without her? Either way, I feel like I can date again soon!! Hm, I dunno man. It comes and goes in waves for me. One moment I'm like, ef her, the other, I'm like, I miss her. 3
Ireallydontknow Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Hm, I dunno man. It comes and goes in waves for me. One moment I'm like, ef her, the other, I'm like, I miss her. Yep, you'll feel it. The first three days of my break up I didn't care. Then the forth, holy crap, it hit me so hard. It still does sometime
Mz_sassy_77 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Its a roller coaster - some days your fine, other days not so good. Sometimes you feel ok with out them, other days it really hits you that you that they arent in your life anymore....And this is a few months on. Your probably still in denial.
ScienceGal Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 In my opinion, it hasn't hit you yet because you're still in contact with her and discussing being "friends". You haven't worked out in your mind that you've lost her as a romantic partner. Once the communication is significantly reduced, or severed, you'll feel it. 1
JDPT Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Get ready for the emotional rollercoaster coming right up, hang thight. 1
Salvatore85 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Sorry dude but it's coming. I felt nothing the first week or so and then bam! It was like being hit by a train. 2
Fashiongal Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 (edited) Lol...you all are so right. At first you are ok ready to move on but after no contact for a few days it hits you bad. Anxiety, racing thoughts, anger, missing them, hating them, sadness.... Ugh if we could only have the brain damage operation performed on us like in eternal sunshine of a spotless mind. Edited October 5, 2013 by Fashiongal 1
Author ponchsox Posted October 5, 2013 Author Posted October 5, 2013 Well, after two good days, I had a rough morning and even tried to contact her
Lizzy_000 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 That's normal, don't beat yourself up. Give yourself time and a chance to be sad. It does get better with time (3-4 weeks I'd say). All the best and hope you feel better soon.
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