hppr Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I've hit on women like that before with some success. Basically be the funny happy guy who just ignores her bitch act and tries to make her laugh. If you can get her laughing then the whole "I'm a hot bitch" act is done. However the girls who were 'like that' that I had success with I knew something about prior to talking to them. I knew they were single, what they liked, what they did for a living, the sorts of guys they'd dated in the past so I at least had a shot. You know nothing about this broad other than all the other guys want her so you do too which honestly sounds like some high school bimbo lusting after a football player. 1
Charlie Harper Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 First: If she is really an Ice queen, steer clear and forget it, if you really want a relationship, Ice queen are the same league than players(men), so if you want a sex relationship with drama, you can play with her as they are easy to play with, but never expect a good relationship. Its exactly the same as women expecting a player to settledown just because you are nice. The problem with players and ice queens is that they are so self entitled that you need to be super funny, have good $$$ and be handsome, and then MAYBE they will give you a chance, same happens to men, who want a super hot bimbo that will make them feel like the last man on earth. 3 words: Low self esteem. Now what do you do to pick up one of these specimens?, pretty simple play with her insecurities, make them feel they are not enough for you and you will be surprised. The problem is that in the end they are -will try to impress you and let you know they are enough but there will not be a real relationship, is only a matter of demonstrating value, exactly like some guys when they find an intelligent women and makes them go the distance before saying, I am not interested. Hint: learn how to say hello, good morning with hand signs, then approach her and say it with your hands, staring straigh at her, she will be like "WTF" and say something like I dont know how to respond or whatever, then say very loud "I thought you were mute or something because you never speak to anybody", say it like a joke and use your hands while speaking, she might answer whatever, and before she finishes, tell her Hi my name is XXXXXX, I dont bite, promise!!!... But I guess you are way too busy with your routine, because you look so serious, so I you want to talk sometime, Ill be over there, pojnt at the place you will be, and turn around and go.... say bye and go... You will be surprised. Players are players no matter if they are men or women. 2
Shepp Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 how do you know shes an 'Ice princess' when you don't even know her? I put my headphones in at the gym, and I don't really focus on the other people there - not because im being rude but because im focusing.
MalachiX Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Question: How do I approach an iceprincess. Answer: The first step is to NOT CALL HER "ICEPRINCESS!!!" 1
joethedatingguy Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 quite often a person may have a "moody face" or look "bitchy" on the outside... but there is no way to know what kind of person they are. I prsonally have approached many girls I was attracted to that looked to be in a sour mood. Head down walking fast. I however naturally was excited to meet her so she was excited to meet me in turn. Sometimes she would tell me to %*# off... in the end it all doesn matter you have nothing to lose... only a relationship to gain.
charlietheginger Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 She will always be a iceprincess even on dates.... if she sees a guy she wants she will make it known to him all others dont stand a chance 1
irc333 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 its already creepy that you sit with your friends and see how many days she gos to the gym and what she do . Not sure what makes you think its creepy, but even non-creepy men do it. It's called "Being human".
Serenagirl Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 well, i see it that way: i use to have my ipod with me during gym training, because i don't want to be bothered by some douches. BUT if a guy has the balls, although i'm behaving like the girl the OP described, and starts talking to me, he is already on a good way. because i don't need a pussy, whos afraid of me. so boy, i say, just go for it. you might be suprised by the outcome. 1
Ouroboros Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 C. S. Lewis once penned a dating manual for this very situation entitled The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe. You can find it at your local library. 1
StanMusial Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 LOL. Just because this young lady doesn't find the OP and his "boys" worth her time doesn't make her an ice princess. From the childish mentality displayed by the OP, I wouldn't waste my time, either. "Ice princess" is a term that describes a girl that's difficult to approach. I have met a few, although not at the gym. She might just be focused in on her workout.
ltjg45 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 The challenge. Because they're irresistible. That's it? I don't get males like you and your "reasoning" to try and approach this woman like it's some kind of game and you just want to beat it, even if the only reward you get out of it is something rammed on your head. Just leave her alone.
ltjg45 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Not sure what makes you think its creepy, but even non-creepy men do it. It's called "Being human". So you just go in a bar with 4-5 other males and just stare at other women all day? Even I classify that as "creepy" and I'm a male myself.
Divasu Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 How to approach an iceprincess? Use a blowtorch. 2
Author boyoh Posted October 6, 2013 Author Posted October 6, 2013 guys, thats not a huge gym center or sth. you have to notice who is around. nobody is sitting there and staring at women so i hope she shows up tomo...funny that when i'm thinking about making a move she disappears *lol*
mario_C Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 (edited) That's it? I don't get males like you and your "reasoning" to try and approach this woman like it's some kind of game and you just want to beat it, even if the only reward you get out of it is something rammed on your head. Just leave her alone. I specified in my post that it works for both genders. Try reading the whole thing before replying, thank you. And where did I say it was about "beating it" and getting "rammed on your head"? What does that even mean, anyway? Edited October 8, 2013 by mario_C to be clear
hppr Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 LOL. Just because this young lady doesn't find the OP and his "boys" worth her time doesn't make her an ice princess. From the childish mentality displayed by the OP, I wouldn't waste my time, either. You're assuming she even notices them. She might be one of those broads who just goes there to 'work out'. My experience is that those people usually hate other people and aren't much fun to be around but who knows. This guy is just posting about some random girl he saw at the gym. So a complete stranger he knows nothing about. She might be really cool, she might be a bitch, she might be married, until he talks to her he has no idea. Personally I think he is just young, dumb and horny for the same girl that all the other young, dumb horny guys are looking at.
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