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Does she have a crush on me? OR does she see me as a brother?


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My sister has this close friend. Lets called her Ariel. Ariel is like drop dead gorgeous. Like if you bring her up when shes not around everyone will be like "that really good looking girl?" shes a definite looker.

 

Ariel is 3 years older then me and i met her when i was 10. When i first met her she always used to say how cute i was and how all the girls were gonna love me. My sister always used to make jokes about not leaving us alone because she wanted to jump my bones. Ariel also gave me a lap dance at a party when i was 10.

 

So fast forward to when i was 15. I hadn't seen her in a couple years. Her and my sister came to pick me up after a basketball game. I was talking to a girl who had a crush on me at the time. Well ariel walked up and jumped into my arms, gave me a kiss, and then put my hand around her waist and made me walk back to car with her like that. Like everyone in the school was staring because she is that hot. And when we got back to the car she was like "i just raised your popularity by like ten points"

 

The next year my sister had a pretty big christmas party. I was 16 at the time. Both me and ariel spent the night. I didn't make a move on her because i thought it would be really awkward. But after everyone left it was just me and her. She was walking around with no bra on the whole time just a shirt. She ended up making me breakfast (i thought that was sweet) and then after that we cuddled on the couch and watch movies. And when i say we cuddled i mean we cuddled. She was under the same blanket as me laying on my arm.

 

I haven't seen her again since :( i'm 18 19 now. My mom said she just saw her downtown and she was like "oh my god u need to tell saul to call me when he turns 18"

 

But idk? I mean she is my sisters friend? Maybe she just sees me as like her lil bro?

 

Also i know she is attracted to guys like me. I'm a boxer. And her last two boyfriends were boxers. And i've heard her say that she find that irresistible before.

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And if it was any other girl i would just make a move. But i'm intimidated by her looks AND shes a family friend. SO if she shoots me down its gonna be like awkward and everyone in my family will know.

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Take it as a friendly approach then and hang out once and then see how the vibe is in person. If she told you mom to have you call her that is on thing, but, she said "once you turn 18" which is different... Seems to hint interest or she was joking around. Regardless, maybe check with your sister or maybe you guys can all hang out. Doesn't hurt to know more hot girls, they have friends/etc even if it doesn't go anywhere.

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First you need to find out from your sister if she's seeing anyone? Don't go in there full steam ahead and not knowing this! Once you find out she's not then contact her. Tell her you want to just take her to get ice cream or go roller or ice skating or theme park. Whatever you like or what you both like. Or better yet swimming just have some fun. You need to know her intent with you though? You already have intent to be with her. Stay focus on her and be positive and just make her smile, laugh and just be happy!

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