sweet05 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 I dated this guy for 2 months, and I was so happy. He divorced 2 years ago and has two kids, he also has issues with his mother, takes HDD pills and goes to a therapist every week. I was having the best time with him, but at the end of the second mont he started changing saying he had to much stress at work. He one day sat me down and told me we should end up because there was something that wasn't clicking between us, I said it was ok, he looked at me and asked me to challenge him, I just looked at him and told him look at me and tell me you don't have feelings and then we were good, we said we were going to make things work out. Next day I felt bad like that wasn't fair for me since I have been always there for him, and I ended up, telling him to take some time. The days passed and I just missed him crazy, and texted and he would call me, at the end I told him if we had feelings we should be together. He came to pick some stuff I had of him, told me he needed some time that he was a mess, that I didn't deserve being with him, that when he was ok he would reach back to see if I was still available, because he cares about me. I couldnt do the NC so I wrote him a message on facebook, he responded he couldn't talk to me for some time, and blocked me. I feel so bad, I think all he said was Bull****, he just didn't really care for me, maybe he even wants to get back to one of the ex girlfriends he dated. If he cared for me he wouldn't block me, it hurtss I know I need to move on, and that he isn't worth my pain, but it still hurts If he really come backs I dont think Ill even want him back, who does that do drastically! Please give me some advice
Author sweet05 Posted October 4, 2013 Author Posted October 4, 2013 Please anyone wants to give me and advice help me
Zahara Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 I'm sorry you are struggling with this. It's very difficult when you're enjoying the ride and it gets cut short so soon and so abruptly. This guy does sound emotionally unavailable. You shouldn't blame yourself for the demise of it. With all the issues that he is going through, he probably doesn't have it in him to invest emotionally or it could be that he's realizing it's not what he wants. Thank god you dated for 2 months. This is a blessing.
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