jacg89 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 (edited) we've been close friends for a year. i live downstairs with my grandma,he lives upstairs. since the beginning of the summer, we have been making out but we are not official bf/gf yet since he is going back to his country soon, but he's coming back and he mentioned us moving in together (that would be in a while) people know that we are together, and I also hang out with all his family & friends. since last week, we have been having sex. so I just got a real bed 3 days ago, and we mentioned us staying with eachother beforehand but nothing serious, for the past 2 days I asked him and he said "in a couple of days"... because 'he won't be able to sleep if he sleeps with me' ...for sexual reasons. and I just cant believe that that is the real reason, since, hey... is that a bad thing?? haha. I guess I will see 'in a couple of days' if he will finally give in, and what is going to happen in a couple of days? he won't be able to sleep... so its either now or later, right? So why is he waiting a couple of days to stay with me? Or am I overthinking this? he also said ' I have a feeling that we will sleep together a lot' and then made a joke like '....like more than 2x' Edited October 4, 2013 by jacg89
Eivuwan Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 I think it's problematic that you guys have been close friends for over a year and yet you have to go on internet forums to assess his intentions. Shouldn't you know him pretty well by now? Why can't you just talk to him about these issues?
thefirsttenmin Posted October 19, 2013 Posted October 19, 2013 I think you need to talk with him regarding all these issues. You both can mutually clear all the things easily.
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