grumblebum Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 gday i am seeking other peoples point of view on my situation me and my wife have been married for 8 years and we have had our ups and downs but have been faithful during our marriage .while we were still dating and our relationship was not in the best shape my partner confessed to me that at her work party she hooked up with one of her work colleagues but she confessed the very next morning that was 12 yrs ago. my problem is now aproxx 4 months ago while arguing she confessed that it had been goin on for 3/4 weeks before the work party . we have been slowly reconciling . my question is did she bring a lie into the marriage as she believes or has an affair/cheating been brought into our marriage as i believe my wife believes that she just didnt tell me the whole story because we see things differently it is putting a lot of strain on repairing our marriage any thoughts would be appreciated
acrosstheuniverse Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 She lied and you married her based on false beliefs about your relationship. Think very, very carefully about whether a life with a liar and cheater is what you want. She should be the one begging you to give her another chance, not trying to justify it saying she 'didn't tell the full truth' (aka lied). Curious, why did it all come out now? Was your marriage already a bit rocky, what was in it for her to tell you all of this suddenly? Did she want to hurt you? To have a reason to end the marriage?
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