Tk123 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Hey all. Before I get started I'll give a little background of myself. I'm a 20 year old male college student. I would say I'm a fairly good looking guy for my age. I've always been more of the quiet type until I really get to know someone. I just want some opinions on the current situation I'm in. I'm in my sophomore year of college now and I met this one girl that I am becoming more and more into. We knew of each other last year however, we didn't talk much. This year we have a few classes together and see each other more often, so I was able to break the ice and talk to her more. We talk quite a bit when we're around each other, however I feel like most of our conversation revolves around school (which isn't a bad thing I guess however, there are more things to talk about!). Every once in awhile before class, we'll have a smoke together and chat it up. Overall, I've noticed she's a very easy going girl. Outside of our talks in school, we text each other but it's very sporadic. Once again, it usually involves school. Despite this, we always have a few good laughs together and I really enjoy being around her. We're always making jokes about classes in general and professors. She does little things that makes me wonder if she is possibly into me. For example the other day I was walking back to my car, and I heard a girl screaming my name from a car, sure enough I turned around and it was her with a group of her friends. Basically, I really don't know what to make of this girl or situation. Part of me wants to make a move and ask her out, but of course I fear rejection and I wouldn't want to scare her off or change what she thinks of me. How would you go about a situation like this? If you made a move, how would you do it? If I were to make a move, where would you suggest I ask her out? Should I just wait it out and continue having this light and playful friendship with her? All help is greatly appreciated. Thanks, Tom
kassy Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 You could ask her to grab a coffee some day after class. If that goes well then ask her out for dinner or out on an activity date or something fun. It sounds like she could well be interested. Just ask her out. She sounds like a nice person so if she doesn't like you she will probably just be flattered and be nice about it. So just go for it.
cif Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 I guess you could start talking about other interests besides school..music for example then ask her if she'd like to go see a concert. She sounds into you with the playful things she does. Good luck. And oh stop smoking it's gross.
Author Tk123 Posted October 4, 2013 Author Posted October 4, 2013 You could ask her to grab a coffee some day after class. If that goes well then ask her out for dinner or out on an activity date or something fun. It sounds like she could well be interested. Just ask her out. She sounds like a nice person so if she doesn't like you she will probably just be flattered and be nice about it. So just go for it. That sounds like a good idea. I'll have to give that a try. We have walked to the food court area of our school and have gotten something, but I've never really gotten to sit down and talk with her outside of class. I guess you could start talking about other interests besides school..music for example then ask her if she'd like to go see a concert. She sounds into you with the playful things she does. Good luck. And oh stop smoking it's gross. It's funny you mention this, because we are both music majors. So that's what most of our conversation is about.
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