henderson14 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Went out on a first date on a Wed. Don't want to wait until Sunday to call her, but also don't want to call her on a Friday or Saturday because who has time to talk on those days? And I think its lame to call on those days after one date.
ForeverHopeful1 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Lame = Not asking a girl out when you really like her. Call her, Silly! 2
Fondue Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 IMO, leave her alone until Sunday. Call her up in the afternoon time and schedule another date for early in the week (Tuesday?). That's how I'd play it.
Phoe Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 don't want to call her on a Friday or Saturday because who has time to talk on those days? Who DOESN'T have time to at least say hi and set up another date on those days? You're just trying to find some strange excuse to not call her for whatever reason because you think it's "lame". If you like her and would like to set up another date with her, then call her. 1
tlegend Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Went out on a first date on a Wed. Don't want to wait until Sunday to call her, but also don't want to call her on a Friday or Saturday because who has time to talk on those days? So, you pretty much just answered your own question. You like her? Check! You had a good time? Check! You are already wondering when you can see her again? Check! I would call / in-person, say something along these lines: "Hey, I know we just had a first date Wed, but I really enjoyed my time with you. I was going to try to play this all cool and wait a few days to ask you out on another date, but instead, I'd like to take you out this Friday. I know you may be busy, but I'm shooting in the dark here. What do you say?" Congratulations, you just took the question you asked us, and you are asking the girl you want to out on another date. 1
Author henderson14 Posted October 4, 2013 Author Posted October 4, 2013 So, you pretty much just answered your own question. You like her? Check! You had a good time? Check! You are already wondering when you can see her again? Check! I would call / in-person, say something along these lines: "Hey, I know we just had a first date Wed, but I really enjoyed my time with you. I was going to try to play this all cool and wait a few days to ask you out on another date, but instead, I'd like to take you out this Friday. I know you may be busy, but I'm shooting in the dark here. What do you say?" Congratulations, you just took the question you asked us, and you are asking the girl you want to out on another date. I never said I was going to actually ask her out on a Friday. I was just going to call her and schedule a date a few days later like normal people do. And your quote sounds ridiculously stupid.
Phantom888 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 There is no "normal" way to do this. You ask a girl whenever you feel like it. This artificial dating etiquette is complete BS. It doesn't apply to anyone frankly. If you like her, call her! If she has no time for you, then she doesn't like you! Simple.
Author henderson14 Posted October 4, 2013 Author Posted October 4, 2013 I called her and left a message.
ponchsox Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 If she likes you she is awaiting for your call.
Woggle Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 If she is truly into you you can call it three in the morning and it wouldn't destroy your chances.
Author henderson14 Posted October 5, 2013 Author Posted October 5, 2013 If she is truly into you you can call it three in the morning and it wouldn't destroy your chances. If she really likes you a lot. Some girls are somewhere inbetween though. She returned my call though. Glad I called tonight. Thanks all 1
yankees51988 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I dunno, I usually just plan a date the night I'm going out. As for what someone else said to say... "Hey, I know we just had a first date Wed, but I really enjoyed my time with you. I was going to try to play this all cool and wait a few days to ask you out on another date, but instead, I'd like to take you out this Friday. I know you may be busy, but I'm shooting in the dark here. What do you say?"" Ehhhh, that is weird, lol. It's almost formal to the point that it belongs in a job interview, haha. "I really enjoyed my time with you, and I am trying to play this cool.". "Shooting in the dark, you may be busy"? Sorry, but cooommmeee on. It isn't that complicated, ha. Who cares if you just hung out the other day, isn't that normal for you to keep hanging out if you are into each other? Usually when I start hanging out/hooking up with a girl they will hit me up like almost everyday to chill or if we don't need some space I'll give them a call to hang out. Just be like... "Hey, I had fun the other night, let's do it again. Wanna grab some drinks friday?" Nothing wrong with keeping it simple and honest, rather than all this "I looooove talking to you and I'm trying to play it cool but I'm too goo goo ga ga over you"
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