ponchsox Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 That immediately following your break up, everything you notice reminds you of the breakup and your ex? Like every song you hear on the radio is a love song, you keep seeing the same model and color car your ex drove, etc.?! Aghhh, make it stop!!!!
mtnbiker3000 Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 you keep seeing the same model and color car your ex drove LOL!!! Yeah, I have commented on this before. Literally 15 of the same exact year, make, model and color of hers in this relatively small town. Always makes my heart skip a beat when I see one...
Johnsmith100 Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 Yep. Hear lyrics in songs that are years old and get them. Sucks eh!
NoLeafClover Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 That immediately following your break up, everything you notice reminds you of the breakup and your ex? Like every song you hear on the radio is a love song, you keep seeing the same model and color car your ex drove, etc.?! Aghhh, make it stop!!!! Love can make you become so blind, that if your ex were to drive a piece of sh*t car, you'd still be staring at his/her car drive by and relapse feeling as if they are doing so much better ...like they just upgraded to the latest S class and you are still taking a bus to go work.
JDPT Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 I think we become so volnurable and needy that any unrealavant trigger will subliminally be linked to our current situation. It feels as if we are constantly tortured by anything and everything. I see it as an uphill battle always rerouting my thoughts. For instance, I heard a sound at work that immediately reminded me of my ex, yes a sound. I was forced to stop what I was doing and started talking to myself telling me that, that sound had nothing to do with my ex, so yes it's an everyday struggle. Hopefully later on down the road I aim towards not interrupting my daily activities for mundane thoughts.
organizedchaos Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 That immediately following your break up, everything you notice reminds you of the breakup and your ex? Like every song you hear on the radio is a love song, you keep seeing the same model and color car your ex drove, etc.?! Aghhh, make it stop!!!! How about this...went on a date and met the girl at a bar. AFterward, we go to her car b/c she's going to drive me to my car (hard to find parking). As I walk to her car and I get in...She has the EXACT same make, model, year and color car as my ex. Ugh. This was just a, hey, let me get myself back out there thing, but I knew this was going nowhere, fast. 1
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