mike1988 Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 I think I am a fairly attractive guy. Everyone I hang out with or work with seems to like me. You know the type of comments. "I love you" or "You're so funny" but none of the girls ever say or mean it in a romantic or sexual way. There are girls I work with, hang out with, or even just see in the stores who literally make me think, "OH MY GODDDDD" and clench my fists because I'm so attracted to them. Literally, girls on my Facebook, who'll post new pictures and I'll say out loud (to myself) "You're so gorgeous." At times, I've had dreams about some of these girls that either I know now or have known in the past. Recurring dreams. To top it off, some of these girls I haven't seen in person in over a year. Yet, I have dreams about them. Not sexual dreams even, but sometimes I just see them in the dream. Then there are the girls who like me. Usually tomboys...which I have no attraction to whatsoever. I get girls that are into mudding, hunting, and four wheeling and are super athletic, the exact opposite of me. Plus, their interests and tomboy nature comes across more masculine and turns me off. OR I get girls who are super shy "never kissed a boy before" types, which also turn me off. Yet the girls I truly desire never even look my way, even the ones with only average looks. Basically, I get girls...but not the girls I want. Not the girls of my dreams (literally). What is my problem? Clearly I'm not shallow if I'm willing to date these girls even if they're not as attractive as the super-hot girls. Is it that I settle just so that I'm with someone? Thanks.
hppr Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 If you want a cute girly-girly then you need to be a really masculine, loudmouthed kind of guy because that is what most of them want. So figure out how to be more 'macho' or go out with some of those cowgirl types. Honestly the outdoors and going mudding with a girl who is very athletic sounds a lot better than dealing with the modern girly-girl stuff, IE the rat dog, hellish pink apartment, 4" heels, and a tramp stamp.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Do you ever actually go after the girls that you're interested in. Any girl that I've ever liked, I've gotten in some capacity (although, when I was younger, I lost them soon after lol). 1
El Brujo Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 The girls I got were 3 who looked like fat teenage boys and 1 who looked ok but tried to use the Jedi mind trick on me. Then I figured out the rules work very differently in the asexual/virgin/quirkyalone/abstinent universe. 1
LilGirlandOW Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 (edited) maybe your more compatible with the athletic, outdoorsy types? Or maybe your ball just keeps landing on red, and hopefully the right scenario will help you get a spin landing on black? Keep your stick on the ice buddy, try going to new places with a high ratio of hot chicks. Yes hot chicks like a macho guy sometimes. I consider myself a hot chick and I prefer a smooth guy like James Franco type. :love: Just dont be too smooth, lol Good luck! Edited October 6, 2013 by LilGirlandOW
TheGuard13 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Silly question... Have you actually approached or asked out any of the girls you dream about?
El Brujo Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Silly question... Have you actually approached or asked out any of the girls you dream about? No, because the fetishists snapped all of them up and married them quick.
Mr.Mango Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Yeah, I'll be the next to ask if you've pursued any of these unattainable girls? Otherwise a lot of it comes down to compatibility and chemicals. Rarely do people click on a chemical level in relationships, and even less outside of them, so don't feel bad about your odds.
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