Simon Phoenix Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Again, I wouldn't take her back, and I'd be offended if she said that. I just thought I'd share what happened. I think I'll remain LC. Yeah, I don't see any point of contacting her again, at least while you still hold a candle for her. I wouldn't be surprised if she used your note as an excuse to try to buddy up with you though. She got to release some emotions on you free of charge. I'd guess that she looks to do that again. 1
Author Romaks Posted October 15, 2013 Author Posted October 15, 2013 (edited) This is true, but I unloaded some emotions myself. I've kind of attained this inner peace where I don't really care that much since I don't want her back nor do I have any expectations. I know she does actually care about me, and I do care about her too. What it comes down to is I'm scared for the future. Edited October 15, 2013 by Romaks
h0000 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 well she is determined that this isn't working out.you guys had a great time and it's time to say goodbye,that's what it is.. I kind of broke my NC as well..I left a comment under my ex's Facebook status ( he was asking for advice i provided some info. i would expect him to say thanks or something ) but he didn't act on it at all. no reply whatsoever. I felt ignored and hurt..or am I just overreacting on FB thing ..
reddragon588 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 So... what are you getting out of being friend zoned? You admitted you have total ulterior motives in this "friendship". What if she doesn't "come to her senses"? If she's "the one" she'll come back to you regardless of whether you are in NC or not.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 well she is determined that this isn't working out.you guys had a great time and it's time to say goodbye,that's what it is.. I kind of broke my NC as well..I left a comment under my ex's Facebook status ( he was asking for advice i provided some info. i would expect him to say thanks or something ) but he didn't act on it at all. no reply whatsoever. I felt ignored and hurt..or am I just overreacting on FB thing .. Just means you shouldn't have said a thing. If one of your everyday friends didn't respond to a comment, you wouldn't have thought twice about it and you certainly wouldn't be upset. Just proves that you aren't ready for contact.
h0000 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Just means you shouldn't have said a thing. If one of your everyday friends didn't respond to a comment, you wouldn't have thought twice about it and you certainly wouldn't be upset. Just proves that you aren't ready for contact. well..i kinda expect people to reply to my comments..yeah i would not be very upset, but maybe I will just wonder it for a few minutes.. so do people just not reply to their comments from time to time? what if it's a girl a guy likes?
Simon Phoenix Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 well..i kinda expect people to reply to my comments..yeah i would not be very upset, but maybe I will just wonder it for a few minutes.. so do people just not reply to their comments from time to time? what if it's a girl a guy likes? Is this a serious question? I probably don't respond to most comments unless I have something funny to say -- doesn't really matter who is commenting. I don't live on Facebook. 1
h0000 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 it is a question..what do you mean "serious"...
cavalier99 Posted October 15, 2013 Posted October 15, 2013 Id say it time for pure pure NC. This type of contact will torment you and make her feel great! This isnt a big deal to her. She has detached..you havent. Save this stuff for after a year or so NC. Then you could friend zone her like she is doing to you and actually benefit from it!!! But right now this is just going to **** you up. Cav 1
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