datingguy Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 Hi All, Looking for some advice. Dating a girl who is gorgeous, sweet, kind and friendly. She had a relationship end badly in February where she had to get a restraining order, etc. We have been on 3 dates. I had told her after Date 2 I am moving slow but I am passionate but have wanted to jump her like 100x. She said she was a little timid with how the last relationship ended. We have only kissed a few times with pecks, she hasn't ever touched me, play kicked me, etc. I find this very confusing. On Date #1 I went to hold her hand to walk her to her car and she dropped my hand to get her keys obviously not comfortable which I was fine with. I am a little worried with so little contact after 3 dates of getting into the friend zone yet i want to move slow to support her comfort. She tells me she misses me, she's thinking of me, had a great time, etc. I don't understand why she doesn't flirt much at all. Do I push more like french kissing, hand holding, etc on Date 4 or continue the status quo of very little touching and just be patient. This girl is smoking hot, I am ready to kiss her passionately but want to move slow. The dropped hand on Date 1 was a slowdown key to me. Usually by Date 3 on prior dates the physical nature is very high. Does she have self esteem issues? Need me to drive or just truly want to move slow. Do tell her I am ready for more physical contact and express my concerns about her not flirting or touching me at all. Help. Dan
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