I'm back :)

[Fufu]

Dear All,

 

I'm back I was in this forum in late 2010 posting my devastating heartbroken relationship like many of us had/have experienced.

 

I was on and off NC for several times and had gone through a series of "Emotional Coaster".

 

And then I began reading others' experiences and posting personal advises/suggestions and hoping to give support and encouragement to anyone out there who is feeling hurt.

 

I'm fully recovered after about 1 and a half year. It doesn't matter it took this long, I'm most grateful I am happy at this point of my life. And recently, got into a new relationship after single for nearly 3 years. I will see how this relationship will go from here

 

 

Some life-changing tips I've experienced during my recovery stages:

Don't push yourself too hard, emotional wound healing works very differently from physical wound healing. We can't just stick a plaster right at our heart or take medicines to recover. It all starts from within and it gonna takes time. There is no time frame to heal, everyone heals at different timings. Learn to be aware and recognize your own emotions.

 

What do I mean by starting from within?

We are our own best healer when it comes to heartbroken emotional situations. If you feel/think you are happy, you are happy. If you feel/think you are hopeless/useless, then eventually you will become what you felt/thought of yourself. It's just this simple and logical and many of us know about this. Unfortunately, the more common sense it is, the more we try to go against it. Get back on track and start thinking from within the right and positive way.

 

Time to do something different in your life

When you feeling the worst of your life, it's the best time to do something different about your life. Why is that so? Because you got to get yourself out of this miserable stage and do something fruitful for yourself. Or you rather choose to feel depressed for life?

 

Remember, we make our own choices in our own lives.

We make our own choices in lives. No one has the right to hinder ours. When someone doesn't want you in their lives, respect their decision and leave like a hero (if you are a man) or with grace (if you are a woman).

 

and last of all.

 

You are not alone in this

Everyone experiences heartbroken situation in someways. Some people had more, some had lesser, it doesn't matter. We all faced the same issues, we are not alone in this.

Edited October 3, 2013 by Fufu

[JoelBarish]

Welcome back and thank you for posting what you have learned!

[love1336x]

Aww. I love this post! This is proof that life goes on!!!!!

[Fufu]

Thank you love1336x and JoelBarish Glad it helps