Nyclovin Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 Why can't I accept that after 4 years she simply didn't want me anymore and the rest of what everyone else says and writes is bullchit? Let's get real people. 4
JoelBarish Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 Why can't I accept that after 4 years she simply didn't want me anymore and the rest of what everyone else says and writes is bullchit? Let's get real people. That's true. At the end of the day she isn't with you and the rest doesn't matter. It will take time but it is time to let go...
clementyne Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 So true. At the end of the day, no matter what anyone says, the cold stark truth is, they simply didn't want us. That's the bitter pill we must swallow. 1
Mr Scorpio Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Why can't I accept that after 4 years she simply didn't want me anymore and the rest of what everyone else says and writes is bullchit? Because you still have feelings for her and want to believe any other reason as to why she left you?
Renard99 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 (edited) Why can't I accept that after 4 years she simply didn't want me anymore and the rest of what everyone else says and writes is bullchit? Because that's too simple to fully encompass what happened. I threw out a shirt the other day. I didn't want it....... now that makes me sound wasteful. Like I just discard stuff whenever I feel like it........ In reality, it was old, I'd worn it whilst I decorated the spare room, and to work on the car, and to work in the garden. It was a mess. That's the more detailed reason and one that makes more sense. Edited October 4, 2013 by Renard99 1
candie13 Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Why can't I accept that after 4 years she simply didn't want me anymore and the rest of what everyone else says and writes is bullchit? Let's get real people. Her not wanting you anymore is a consequence, not the cause. If you care to understand the cause of your break up, talk to HER. All the talking with a bunch of strangers on internet won't tell you what happened to her. Your reaction shows self esteem issues, you might want to work on that as well. 2
Reels Posted October 4, 2013 Posted October 4, 2013 Why can't I accept that after 4 years she simply didn't want me anymore and the rest of what everyone else says and writes is bullchit? Let's get real people. Probably, if you truly loved someone, you will never forget them.
Author Nyclovin Posted October 6, 2013 Author Posted October 6, 2013 Talking to her about it is out of the question as NC seems to have been the only thing I can count on to have a somewhat normal life. She hasn't reached out, not once , after close to five years living together.... Then one day... Boom... Not a word ever again... Incredible
Mr Scorpio Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 She hasn't reached out, not once , after close to five years living together.... Then one day... Boom... Not a word ever again... Incredible I think that helps explain why you can't accept the situation. What she did was sudden and unexpected. It was also exceedingly cruel. I hope that you don't carry a fear of experiencing the same thing again in the future.
Reels Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I think that helps explain why you can't accept the situation. What she did was sudden and unexpected. It was also exceedingly cruel. I hope that you don't carry a fear of experiencing the same thing again in the future. Don't know about him, but i have such fear now.. I feel, that what is gonna happen anyway.. If i am intelligent(know a lot) then they would feel like a kid, if i am dumb they would play with me much before than i can expect.
Author Nyclovin Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 I feel depleted. Even after 5 months on NC, I'm not sure I can do this all over again . I hope I have learned my lessons, both good and bad.
Reels Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 I feel depleted. Even after 5 months on NC, I'm not sure I can do this all over again . I hope I have learned my lessons, both good and bad. Right, lesson was served, whether it's you or me, or anyone else.
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