smithray2111 Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 My ex boyfriend and I had been together for a year, and were seeing eachother for almost two. He is in the military and had just returned from a 6 month deployment around 2 months ago. The first month was fabulous, we were so in love. This past month we had been argueing constantly. He was so distant and I couldn't take it so i pushed and pushed for him to be back to his normal self. This took a toll on him so he finally called it quits. I couldnt believe what was happening. I begged and begged for days, i was in denial and couldn't believe what was happening. He kept saying he was so in love with me, had never felt that spark with anyone, and knew he would never feel it again. He said that if we really were soul mates like we thought we were, then maybe "in a month, a year, 20 years who knows..." we would meet again and see if we had the same spark when we looked into eachothers eyes. I don't know if it's that he just got out of the military and is freaking out about having a completely knew life, but I am devistated. I can't stop wondering if we are ever going to get back together or if he is still thinking about me. This happened 5 days ago. The first 2 i was absolutely insane. I wouldn't let go. The 3rd I got better and finally started to accept it. Yesterday I didn't text him at all and he texted me and asked me why i deleted the pictures of us on facebook. Does anyone have an opinion on this?
Fufu Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 To answer your question directly, no one will ever know if your ex will come back, not even your ex himself. The first fact you have to realize and be firm is your ex had already called the quits. The words he said could possibly be used in a way to make you feel less hurt after calling quits or maybe he is in a confusion mode. But whatever he is thinking or not thinking right now, you have to first move on from this. If he wants you back for real, he will do more than just texting you about the pictures on facebook. My advice is to stay cool and calm and see what else he will do (but do not stay over-thinking) You have to be sure that you are fine and happy of your current situation even without him.
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