teonanacatl1 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 (edited) We broke up 2 month ago. She said she didn't feel any attraction anymore, we had been together 5 months and it was a feel good vibe relationship of spending our free time together, I've done drugs and didn't happen to explore more this relationship :\ we fell into a bad dynamic. So I said out of fear well then do you want to break up? I still want to be your friend! and we basically slowly drifted apart from this time. We lost it The sparkle and I fell into a bad dynamic with her as I'm figuring things out I've realizes that my drug habit just put me into a depressive,pendant and weak state which is pretty terrible. Now I'm doing better and I really miss that relationship. I can't get over it and I don't want to, I asked to myself if I needed her or wanted her but I'm sure I just want her. I really think this relationship is worth it awakes my soul in every part of my life and now even being apart from her I feel like I can make the spark happen again only if I set up everything perfectly, my goal and only goal is to make dream cause she made me feel awesome. I've understood what went wrong and I've left her a message saying I was sorry that we winded up like that, that I was egoist that I wish our last fights didn't happen. That if we would be together right now things would be different, that she is a awesome woman and even more when shes in love. In our 1st conversation she said didn't want to to go back with me and that if we wanted to be friends it wouldn't be right now, that she wasn't in love with me anymore. I have a hard time thinking she really meant this t be honest. So yeah, right now I'm working on myself and my own issues. Lets say everything is possible and we can comeback together sometimes. What do you guys think I should do, I'm aimiglikw? Edited October 3, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Added paragraphs and punctuation, what a mess
melell Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Just like everyone else after a breakup, whether you want then back or not, you need to go through the process of moving on. You need time, you need to heal, you need to let go, and you need to make no contact. They will either come back for you, or they wont- but the above needs to happen regardless.
Author teonanacatl1 Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 I feel like if I just walk to her and be happy as **** to see her we will kiss. I have to verify that, its like ive been npt understanding the love she was giving me.
melell Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Sometimes it is too late. She would have concluded that you are never going to change, or else she wouldn't have left. It might not be too late to show her you are different. But it is highly unlikely that she will risk it again. Once people build up the courage to leave they start viewing things very very differently. 1
Author teonanacatl1 Posted October 3, 2013 Author Posted October 3, 2013 I think i still have a chance after she read that last message on facebook she didnt answer but started to post any kinda stuff like i would have affected her to be happier, in tjay message it was saying to forgive eachother, so yes feom her i thinl its a good thing she didnt answer, so we can meet up again and have a great time yeah? I find this quiet posible ^^. I used to not have any power but now that i am bck to ma i can sense that this might be the reality. But yes, maybe she is seeing things differently now, I am too so its fair in some ways to try and explore a new pattern with her.
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