LJK Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 I'm 24 years old and recently attended a small house party that a few of my close friends. In particular there was of my good guy friends who was there who I had not seen for approximately 6 months. My best girl friend and I have been close friends with this guy for four years but strictly platonic. This guy and know each other well, but never would have thought we would hook up. Needless to say, we all had a bit too much to drink that night, especially me. He was actually quiet sober compared to how he usually gets when he drinks. It all started when i was looking for a fan in the room that this guy friend was sleeping in. He pulled down the covers and told me to just sleep with him. No big deal cause we have done this before. We ended up talking for half an hour or so and I started to get tired. I was about to fall asleep when he asked if I wanted to cuddle and before i knew things were heating up and ended up hooking up. I don't think either one of us thought that we would hook up. Were usually attracted to total opposites. To makes things even more complicated my best friend that is also good friends with him, had some feelings for him in which he told her he didn't feel the same and didn't want to ruin their friendship. I might be safe because she is in a relationship with some other guy at the moment, but she has a tendency to freak out over nothing. No only do i feel like this complicated our friendship, but i feel that my best girl friend will be pissed that we hooked up. This guy and i haven't really acknowledged that it happened even though we did see each other again two weeks later and we both played it cool. I can't help but feel like there is a bit of awkwardness. Should I bring it up or pretend it never happened? Do you think our friendship will ever be the same?
jacksonvillae Posted October 3, 2013 Posted October 3, 2013 Talk to him first. If it means anything to him or else just forget it as nothing happened
Recommended Posts