katy3994 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Im dating a man that I just don't understand. pretty much I know what is going on but I want to hear it form someone els so I know for sure before I throw something that I want away. so we started dating about six months ago the first week we meet it was my birthday and I had said I wanted to buy some hair extensions and so he bought them for me which was really nice and I'm not a slut and I believe that sex should mean something and I'm a very loyal person and I don't take heart break well at all so I though I would take it slow and wait till I knew I liked him and that he liked me before I would have sex with him cuz I didn't want to fall for someone who didn't care. so time went on we really got to know each other we where going to watch basketball games together and playing basketball which is both of our favorite things to do. but then every now and again he would just disappear for a few days I though he just needed some space I know he has a lot of issue's with worrying about his brother and sometimes he would just ignore me and then then he would do something that made me feel like he did really like me so I don't know finally I had sex with him it was 4 months but I thought since he keep on trying that that meant that he wanted me things where really good for a few weeks then he ignored me for a whole week and we never have the same days off of work and we both had a Saturday off and I wanted to invite him to come boating with me and he just ignored me so a few days later I let the liquor get to me I know I shouldn't of but so then I asked if I did something wrong he said no I told him it hurt my feelings that he just ignored me he said he was sorry then I let on of my friends talk me into just asking what he wanted with this. he said to be honest he doesn't know what he wants ! I didn't say anything back and it has been 3 days and I thought maybe he would try to get ahold of me I know that basically I have no chance and that it is over but I want to know for sure cuz I don't want to lose him and I want things to work I wish he could know how great I could make his life but idk whats going on with him. and im having a really hard time not calling him even if I did call I don't know what I would say I know im crazy and weird but I need some advice that is not from the woman in my family who are always single because they cant put up with a man. because I can and I don't mind people walking all over me because I can put up with anything and nothing really bothers me.
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