paperboy48 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 I am meeting a girl this weekend that I was set up with (mutual friend). We chatted all throughout last weekend via text, FB and phone. I really have a good feeling about this girl (knock on wood)! We haven't texted since Monday morning, whcih I feel kind of awkward about. I wanted to text her more in the last couple days but don't want to over do it and scare her away. Anyways, if things go well on our date which i am confident they will, how important is it to take things slow? Is there such a thing as "too much too fast" if we gel really good together? I am not going to ask her to marry me, LOL! I just see this going somewhere? Also, should we be texting everyday in the begining or is it necessary to have some space?
Philosoraptor Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Take a break and stop overthinking things. Just do what feels right. If you do what comes natural and it feels right for her, great. If you do what comes natural and you two don't mesh, then it wasn't a good fit anyways. But the more you overthink things the more you are going to self sabatoge any chances, and stress over what is essentially nothing. 1
Copelandsanity Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 1) As long as it isn't going terribly, I always kiss on the 1st date. 2) Generally, I never text a girl, period. The only times I do are to preliminarily check for availability to speak on the phone or to make plans. If I do chit-chat, it's at most once or twice a week and never a full blown conversation.
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