jessicalove Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 My boyfriend and I met on a dating website around this time last year. It took him months to finally get me to go on a date with him. We started dating this past April. Everything was perfect. He graduated from his college and his lease was up so he had to move back home, which is an hour away from where I live. He kept reassuring me that we were going to make this work bc I was the one being doubtful at the beginning. Things were going perfectly fine up until about 2 and half months in. We both decided it was best if we ended things bc the distance was taking a toll on both of us. He was also stressed because he couldn't find a job at the time. The hardest part about the whole breakup was he keep texting & calling me every single day for a month. Finally on July 3rd I asked him if we could text & call less bc I needed my space if weren't going to be together. I needed time to move on and get over him. He messaged me the next day wishing me a happy 4th... then he stopped for 1 day... then he continued texting for the next 3 days and finally stopped. A week later he deleted me from facebook and was in a relationship with some trashy girl. This was so not like him. My guy friends say she was a rebound and he was obviously trying to get over me by being with her. Their relationship only lasted 2 weeks. Then he came back to me. I didn't give in at first bc I was upset and angry, but I cared about him and I knew he knew he was wrong. I knew he came back for a reason. We've been together back together for 2 months. He's been in my life for 6 months. He has a job now, he's working on getting his masters degree. Things are going well, but the only issue I have is we haven't given each other the title. We spoke about it a month and he did tell me I make him happy and he loves being around me. He was honest with me and told me he didn't want the pressure of a relationship at the moment bc of work, school and a possible internship that may involve a move. But, he did say he believes it can get there. He kept apologizing bc he felt as if he were saying all the wrong things. I told him I understood and that the last thing I wanted to do was pressure him into a relationship. As long as we had each other that's all that matter for the moment. I did make it very clear that I DO want a relationship out of this though. I mean, we do relationship things. We go on trips to disney and stay for the weekend. I stay at his place, he recently started stay at mine. We go on dates. I've met most of his friends and all of them know about me. I met his mother, haven't met his dad yet but I know his father knows of me. He's met my father's family, not all but some. So, it's not like anything is a secret. He's not ashamed to be with me and I'm not ashamed to be with him. So, you could pretty much say we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't know what to do because I am falling head over heels in love with him and I don't want to keep falling if nothing is going to come out of this. I know he cares for me a lot but i just don't know what to do. What do you guys think?
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