ViciousLaLa Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 I hope I'm safe from being criticized for having a long distance relationship. Anyway, me and this guy have been dating for almost 4 months. We're very far apart so we can't just meet up. This December we had planned to meet. Thing is, he seems to have lost interest big time, just all of a sudden. We were so perfect. Then he just stopped sending morning texts, being jealous, less talking, less clingy. He used to be so sweet and charming. He doesn't even call me babe anymore. We used to be like Bonnie and Clyde while playing video games, now he just doesn't wanna do shieeeet. I've told him a week ago, if he's bored of the relationship/unhappy, to go live his life and ill leave him to it. He completely ignored it, but immediately tried talking to me all night. Again we try talking but he's just dead to talk to now. I'm close to just snapping at him. If he doesn't want this then why stay?? I've offered to hold the door open for him to go, but he didn't. He's a trustworthy guy. If he wanted another girl, trust me he wouldn't keep me around. I just don't know what to do. Shall I ingage in a serious talk with him? About what exactly tho. Uuggggh. Please don't be harsh, I just need to know what should I say to help us out. I'm lost...I obviously love him.
soccerrprp Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 You LOVE him only after 4-months and having NEVER met??????? You've been dating? So, you've met? This is where you NEED to tell him to get his act together or it's over. That simple. He's probably keeping you around b/c he CURRENTLY doesn't have anyone else. Or he is genuinely frustrated by the distance and lack of contact and feels discouraged. Are you still planning to meet in December?
CherryT Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Not a lot of people in this forum will bash you for being in a LDR... many of us are, so you're not alone. Have you met him in person yet? It sounds like he just got bored. You're hooked onto what he use to do, but things have changed. The image of what your boyfriend is isn't really there. It could be him showing how he really is in a relationship or it could be that he just lost interest. Either way, I think if you're unhappy, you shouldn't wait for him to give you an explanation, because you already tried to ask. Whether you are together locally or in a LDR, your needs aren't being fulfilled. I'm in a LDR with my fiance for over 2 years... and I'm a firm believer that when a man wants you, he will work to keep you. He'll continue to put in the effort and so will you. In your case, it really does seem like you're the only one making the effort to connect with him.
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