Should i be proud of myself if am over my ex and if ex calls me and i give no fck

[youcanever]

Well, 4.5 months ago my ex broke up with me, she didnt give a **** about me, didnt care how i felt. I run afte her like a beta phaggot for 2 months and after that she literally said "get out of my life".

 

That moment i said okay and kept my promise. I did 2.5 months NC and last week she called me just to talk. I was surprised, wasnt waiting for it because i accepted the break up and moved on, enjoyin my single life. Even no sex but kissed 2 girls which i normally dont do if i am not in a relationship.

 

Anyway, while talking she told all about what she did in summer. Her trip to europe and work adventure at the south of country. Told all about her future dreams. Damn it was a very weird convo but good thing is i felt nothing towards her. Not even a lil. She said she saw prague for a day and that second i told her i will spend christmas in prague with friends. She just got numbed that moment. Actually she got numbed at the first second she heard my voice. I wa happy and cool and i was preparing my luggage because i was going to a beautiful city to spend a week while working. She said "ummm why prague? What will you do there?".. I said "we just wanted adventure with friends and will spend christmas there" which is true because we are really going. Also told her i am going to belgrad with other friends for a weel for holiday. She got dumber. Also said i still hit the gym so hard, got new hobbies etc.

 

At the end she said she will send my stuff back. I told it is okay i dont care but she insisted. But it has been 10 days after talk and no stuff is back to me.

 

I dont love her anymore, i dont want her too. Just dont care. I was just feeling a lil bad about myself after break up becase i let her use me and treat me like ****. Now after talk i feel a lil more confident and like earned my selfrespect back. Very proud.

 

What do you guys think? Just curious.

[h0000]

I am curious why she contacted you.

[Romaks]

Sounds like she feels pretty guilty, and it seems you're handling it well.

 

She's the one who treated you like ****, so it's on her conscience. It's your decision if you want to be friends with her and relieve her of her guilt.

[h0000]

It seems common exs contact us and start to fill us with what they've been doing in their lives..But honestly we really dont want to hear that.

Does she want to come back to you? Or she merely wants to alleviate guilt?

[youcanever]

It seems common exs contact us and start to fill us with what they've been doing in their lives..But honestly we really dont want to hear that.

Does she want to come back to you? Or she merely wants to alleviate guilt?

 

I dont know. To be honest while i was talking all i think was "wtf îs this? I dont even remember who she was"... Maybe î was so îndependent and happy and she couldnt ask to meet. Or maybe she just relaxed herself.

 

In both cases i really dont care. I care for her because once i loved this girl so much but now i dont feel same and even though it feels weird to think she will be with other guy, i dont care that much. Because i love my single life and flirt with girls as much as i want.

 

Hope she be happy.

[youcanever]

Sounds like she feels pretty guilty, and it seems you're handling it well.

 

She's the one who treated you like ****, so it's on her conscience. It's your decision if you want to be friends with her and relieve her of her guilt.

 

I dont want to get involved with her in any level. That bridge is destroyed when she told me "get out of my life".