Arabella Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 I guess here in canada and the U.S., we're bigger on privacy. but i think there might be sites that offer that kind of information for a fee? LOL, unfortunately... no, we're not. Whitepages.com just to name one off the top of my head. It's free. There are many others...
Author bumpyroad Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 If you wanna be extra sure, keep the next days in daylight, early. See how he's reacting. Thank you. I'm just going to ask him outright, spring it on him and watch his eyes/body language etc, it's easy to spot liars, it'll tell me all I need to know. I'm pretty upset about it all, cried a bit earlier, feel sick of everything, but it's all part of the dating game, I suppose. Really appreciate all the replies here. :-)
NoMoreJerks Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 LOL, unfortunately... no, we're not. Whitepages.com just to name one off the top of my head. It's free. There are many others... But whitepages don't show who else lives with you in your apartment, no? You can do reverse phone identification, to find out someone's address and full name maybe, but I very much doubt you can find who else lives with them, based on their name and which town they live in.
Author bumpyroad Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 (edited) We haven't got Whitepages in the UK, we have Yellowpages but that's for businesses. On 192 you can even see all the previous property residents' names. Potentially dangerous if you ask me, stalkers/jealous husbands etc, but that's how it is. I think it recently become illegal to not put yourself on the Electoral Roll so there's even less choice now about being on 192, but apparently you can remove yourself from it (192 not the roll). Edited October 2, 2013 by bumpyroad clarity 1
FitChick Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 I guess here in the U.S., we're bigger on privacy. Don't count on it. If you use spokeo.com they sometimes list siblings and parents connected to you, though maybe not living with you. Easy enough to check public records of marriage and divorce these days. I've used 192.com for men in the UK and I'm not a member. If you want very detailed info you join. I can still see where someone lived and with whom, when.
candie13 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 can I say creepy? In all honesty, you only know the declared situation. Four years ago, I was appearing to be living by myself. No, actually that is not the case, you could not trace me, as my company way paying for my flat. And assuming you did manage to trace me, my bf at the time, who was there once in every two weekends, never appeared on any papers ... So yeah, if the guy is married of shares a flat with someone, you get to find out. But if he has a gf for 10 years and they don't legally share the same house... you'll never find out, if you check on those sites. I think if you feel the need to check and use those sites, something must have ticked you off, an alarm bell must have rung somewhere... that is bad news, irrelevant of what one finds.
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