Steven33 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 My Girlfriend decided to take a break after 3years and 8months of been together......relationship was great until she left 3months ago to work on a cruiseline....things just started going wrong from there. We broke up on Sunday, yesterday I messaged her when I sore her online, told her that I really miss you and although she broke up with me, I will remain faithful to her and to us although I am single....I will wait for you to get back from her contract and hopefully we can try again, told her I am not giving up on us.....She replied with if I meet someone new I should go for it and see where it takes me, we only live once and she wants me to be happy......she will be back in March 2014.......we just cant do the long distance thing....she knows now how I feel, so I think its best from today not to contact her....even if that means losing her for good, we both love each other still, its just the distance. I deleted her off my Skype and facebook, don't want to see her updates of travelling the world and seeing how "happy" she is....I still have her sister on FB, and she tagged her sister on her status so I sore that on my news feed, read something like "awesome Skype with my sister "happy times" so that hurt quite a bit.....so you reckon no contact is the best to go?
faithfully Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 NO harm in giving the NC thing a try. It does get easier as the days goes. I am on day 4 and it does get better. Life's tooo short to be waiting for somebody. If its meant to be trust me, it will be. Go to the gym!! get a new hair cut, go and start feeling positive. I know its easier said than done but it takes time. If you move on in a few months or year you might look back and think glad we went our separate way and think "what the hell was I crying/moaning/missing her for" Give NC a go and take it from there 2
headinthecloud Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Sound like she has a case of GIGS. LDRs are very difficult emotionally. You have to have an enormous amount of trust to make it work. Whatever her reasons for the BU you deserve to be happy too. Go NC and start focusing all that energy on you. 6mos is a long time. You deserve someone who is as dedicated to the relationship a you are.
Author Steven33 Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 LDR is hard, the 1st month of her been away was fine, stayed in contact and emailed ect, until I saw pictures of her and this guy on FB that I started to ask questions, he did say to her he liked her, and after me questioning her ect it came out they would lie in each others beds watching movies ect....so after that I felt betrayed, she said nothing happened, but after that we argued many times, and fought about stupid things, I would email her and pour my heart out to her and not hear anything for like two days despite her been online and could have said something....but I am in a good place, keeping busy....play sport every night of the week and during the day on weekends.....NC is the way to go think....
barky2 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Honestly..just based on what ive seen,when someone suggests moving on with someone else....thats what they're doing. Go nc now before youre hurt . Barky 3
faithfully Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 to keep up as am new here, can somebody please explain LDR AND GIGS please??
barky2 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 ldr- long distance relationship. Gigs- grass is greener syndrome, a sticky thread is available on the top of the forum to read all about. Barky
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