TranslucentThoughts Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 I was reading someone's post here the other day and he had talked about all the different reasons people break-up. I remember one of the headings being "I don't love you anymore" or "I feel differently now"... something along those lines. My breakup falls under that category, because that is what my boyfriend said to me. I feel that it came out of nowhere. Under this category I remember the poster saying something about asking the dumper if he/she really did everything they could to save the relationship. I really feel that he didn't... because it ended suddenly and he gave us no time to work things out together... as a couple. He made the decision and I had to just accept it.. But I can't. I love him with all my heart and I cannot stand being without him. I really feel that if we tried, we could get back on track... because we were really happy together and I know we loved eachother a lot. I don't think we should rush right back into a relationship, but at the moment we barely even speak. It's not as if we're angry at eachother... it's just... awkward I guess. I have no idea how to talk to him about any of this... or how to ask him if he would consider building at least a friendship and then seeing how it went from there. Any suggestions or advice would be greatttlllyyyyy appreciated. I'm lost for words. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 because we were really happy together and I know we loved eachother a lot You were happy with him and you loved him alot. More than likely he felt different. how to ask him if he would consider building at least a friendship and then seeing how it went from there. A friendship and a romantic relationship are two different things. What is it that you want? If you are ready to have your heart broken again by the same guy...go ahead, ask him what you want. My advice: Don't say anything to him and live your life. Be happy with yourself and don't depend on anyone for your happiness. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 Most if not all relationships that end.. don't end "suddenly" I know it may seem that way if you've been blindsided and didn't see it coming, but my guess.. he had thought about ending the relationship for quite awhile. When someone tells you they DON'T love you.. best advice I can give you, is to believe them. As hurtingandconfused has said.. You were happy and Loved him a lot.. but he felt differently. I hope you feel better soon.. hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
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