justgreen Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Lets start at the end after a 2 year relationship with this guy i found myself wanting OUT. This guy I am with now was with a friend of mine,after their break up we met up and started going out. My friend told me that he wasn't good for me but I didn't listen. Now 2 years later I want out. He is bi-polar and ADHD and had a VERY ruff childhood. We are SO totalally opposit from eachother form where we stand on moraly and maturally. He is mentally abusive to me and very controling. very few of my friends like him so if I want to hang out with them I can't have him with. Don't get me wrong he does have some good qualities as well. Like he can be sinsitive and very supportive with whatever I want do. But it seems like he's screwin my life up! for example, recentally I took him to a concert and he brought some illigal things with for the concert. Well one the way back I had him drive (mind he doesn't have a license, never had) I was tired and so yea. Well we got pulled over for WINDOW TINT! Well to make a short story short, We both ended up in jail for the rest of the weekend and I had to bail BOTH him and I out. Now I'm screwd on everything, My bills mostly. At first he started to get himself into trouble over stupid stuff, but it didn't afect me. now just like water rings (ripple afect) the bull he's still doing is starting to afect me! Don't get me wrong, I've done my share of stuff, and at times we've dome our share of stuff together while it has been me wanting to but I've done it the right way, He just doesn't think. What do u guys think? Should I get out of this? Am I being selfish by accusing him of everything while I have contorl of my life and can make the right choice for myself and stop letting him win? I need some opinion please!! Thank you.
snipit3172 Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 you say very few of your friends like him well more often that not friends see things you dont and are a good judge of character also if he is mentally abusing you thats not good cos you start to feel bad about yourself i should know and its hard to get out of that i suggest you leave him bothe peole have faults in a relatonship but i think its for the best if you getting yourself into cos of him to walk away
Weird Posted November 30, 2004 Posted November 30, 2004 why did you stay with a guy for 2 years if you knew he wasn't a good match for you? Was it jsut you thinking he'd magically change for you? I just don't understand... haha didn't know the cops actually enforced the window tint thing. What illegal things did he bring to the concert? Also, how old are you both? I'm going to guess young. 25 tops but more likely around 20. Anyway, get out of it. Obviously it is wasting your time so why keep staying in it?
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