cdt76 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 So how do you climb walls that surround her. The walls are so high. They are so thick. I know this means red flags but she could be something g special. Just don't know how to break through.
Author cdt76 Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 We need more details. We met online beginning of August. She is in school for dental hygiene. She is 30 with a 7 year old daughter. We've spent a lot of time together. Dates. Activities. But she doesn't talk about her past. She doesn't talk about where she came from. We have not kissed. She said she wants to finish school first ( which happens in three weeks). She likes me. I know she does based on things she has said. Things she has done. But she doesn't let me in. I try to get through but she cuts it off when true emotions come to light. I tell myself be patient. She has overcome something significant to get to tis point. Don't push it. But I want some kind of verification that I'm not alone in this. That her goal is the same as mine. That she wants a true relationship. But she is so tough. She won't transcend her walls and I need her too. If she doesn't I'll be gone. I don't want to run away just because something is hard. But I need to know I'm not in this alone.
ja123 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 What you just wrote, if modified a bit, is what you need to tell her directly. It sounds like you have a sense of yourself and your needs. That's a very good thing. Only she knows what fears have created her walls. The question is: Are they cemented?
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