some2many Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 I have read on some other threads about guys wanting to be romantic with their friend . Well my situtation is a girl I use to work with and me flirted constently at work until one day she gave me her number without me asking. After that we texted awhile then on my birthday she called me to come over..well we ended up having sex. After that we hung out more for about a month...She had said she didnt want a relationship but during that month she made it clear she was very intrested in pursuing one with me. She went as far to tell me I was different and she would consider it. Well one day out of the blue she tells me she does not want to date anymore...I asked her why she had said the things she did..she said she just got caught up. Since then we have remained friends and we talk everyday our kids still hangout together ..its like nothing has changed but that we dont have sex now because she has made it very clear she isnt seeing anyone else and doesnt want to see someone else. I am just really confused because last night we were texting and I told her I was glad I didnt just give up on her...she said she was really glad too..and I asked her is she was still not interested in seeing anyone or having sex with anyone. She made it clear she wasnt and was not going to. My problem is I know she didnt just get caught up..shes not that kind of person. Shes always been honest with me like 100% on everything ..oh and not to mention me falling in love with her..my heart hurts I feel like I should let go but my heart is telling me to hangout awhile and let things play out. Further more she adds things like she doesnt know if we will be together in the future her words " I just want this to do whatever its going to do" <---- confused I asked her if I was annoying her or if she wanted me to stop talking to her ..she said no and that she wanted to talk to me. Did I get played ? I really dont think I was played I know she cares ..the other night she drove a long way just to pick me she could have said no. I really feel like if I just let her go..it will be a huge mistake but at the same time I dont want to feel stupid for hanging around. SO.. Do I hang around and let it play out or do I end it now? Did I get played ? What should I do if I decided to let things stay how they are ?? is there way to make her realize her feelings for me? ( I can see it in her eyes)
cif Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Did I get played ? To say you were played would be to imply that she somehow led you on which he has not. It seem that she is honest with her feelings. Do I hang around and let it play out or do I end it now? Can you handle just being friends? Because she has made it clear she doesn't want to pursue a relationship with you. How would you feel if she does start dating again? Did I get played ? My opinion: no What should I do if I decided to let things stay how they are ?? You may end up hurt. Is it worth the risk? is there way to make her realize her feelings for me? ( I can see it in her eyes) You mean her mouth says no but her eyes say yes? You need to get such thoughts out of your head. This is what rapists say. When a woman says no, it's a no.
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