HighheelsAries Posted October 1, 2013 Share Posted October 1, 2013 My exH and I got divorced and it feels as if I divorced his whole family! There was a recent family gathering and his parents invited my child to visit with his Dad- their son. I was not invited. To add insult to injury I saw pictures of my xH, his parents, my child and xH new wife! Are they trying to pretend that I don't exist? She is not the mother of their grandchild, but it sure looks that way in the photos. Sure it's true that GrandMa never liked me to start with, but her birthday pictures tell a lie of a thousand words and it hurts! Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 1, 2013 Share Posted October 1, 2013 Of course they are not going to invite you when your exH is remarried. Sorry but you are no longer part of the family. Your son will always be a member of their family because he is connected by blood. I'm surprised you would even want to go to their family gatherings. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nescafe1982 Posted October 1, 2013 Share Posted October 1, 2013 Yes, OP. I can understand feeling hurt by this, but do you really want invites to that kind of thing? I'm gathering that you're just venting your pain here... but if you do actually want to "be part of" that family after a divorce, please explain more. I've never been divorced, but I've never heard of a case where the ex-wife remains part of the husband's family after he's remarried. You have a child that links you all together, so cordiality is called for. But equal consideration as your ex-husband? Not so much. Link to post Share on other sites
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