HighheelsAries Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 My ex Husbands' trophy wife is pregnant. What annoys me is I saw them out shopping at a baby store. He had no interest in this when my child was born. It just grates me that he has moved on and is playing happy families with this woman. His attention should be on his first child, not pretending we don't exist. Why do these second wives think they can just rewrite history- replace what was there first?
ForeverHopeful1 Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 What about him? Lol. HE IS ERASING HISTORY and pretending you dont exist. Its not her history, but his history. Sorry to be blunt, but she is allowed to be happy she is pregnant.
HokeyReligions Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Hubbys dad remarried. To a woman with kids younger than hubby. He did all the things for the step kids that he didn't do for hubby. It hurt him. Bottom line - his dad learned from his mistakes. He never knew how to correct them for his son but learned not to repeat them. Maybe its like that for your ex. 2
Janesays Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Ewww, jealousy doesn't look good on anyone. Including the first wife.
iris219 Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 You've said in past posts that he pays child support and has visitation with his son regularly. He isn't pretending his son doesn't exist. You've also said that your son's stepmother is good to him and he likes her. I understand that it might sting to see your ex with someone else, but what do you want from the poor guy? Do you want him to neglect his new wife and child? Be an ass to them? Come back to you? Or do you just want to be bitter? Happiness is a choice. You are choosing to be miserable rather than moving on and living a full, satisfying life. 3
HokeyReligions Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 This is a good place to vent. I'd probably take a dip in the bitter pool too. Its natural when in hurts to feel that way. I just hope you can get out of the pool before your skin prunes. You and your child will be happier.
Tayla Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 Wow. Truly sorry for you . In time when your emotions heal you'll outgrow this angst....Its a shame some folks cannot see that moving on requires growing in a healthy way.
2sure Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 You will move on from this. He is paying child support and using his visitation. If his new wife is good to your child, everything is as right with the world as it is going to get. Sure, the new baby will get lots of attention for awhile . But at your home, you're son gets all the attention , so it evens out . It's just growing pains . You will regain your composure.
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