in_awe Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 So there is this new girl who just started working at my company about a month ago. She just moved here and she doesnt have any friends near by. Im a driver for the company and she had to go on a ride along to get an idea how things work so we spent the whole day together. We got along pretty well and we had a lot in common. After that day I just moved on thinking nothing of it, until one day when we saw each other she asked how I was doing and I mentioned I was tired because I was up late attending an art walk. She said it sojnds like fun and never been to one and that she would like yo go next time. I said sure and some time after she gave me her cell number and tild me to let her know. I then invited her to an art walk for this friday and she accepted happily and to an improv show after. Now my concern is whether she just wants to hang out as friends or interested in dating. She did just move here and it seems like she has nobody to hang out with. She is great to talk to and very attractive, which brings up another problem. I wear a hat for work all the time especially now because of the summer sun, but i have a receding hair line and I buzzmy hair. She has not seen me without the hat so im worried if she was interested she wont be after she sees my balding dome haha. Anyway, i plan to just try and have a fun time with her. Im just unsure if I should try for more. What do you guys think?
Philosoraptor Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 What have you got to lose by going with her? Sure beats playing this guessing game and overthinking it.
Author in_awe Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 Well we are going to go. I just don't know if I should try to be more intimate or keep it friendly. It's risky because we work together but I also dont plan on staying there much longer. I don't know if she wants to make friends being new to the area or if she is interested. She is the one that is asking to do something.
Woop1337 Posted October 2, 2013 Posted October 2, 2013 (edited) Keep it friendly. Because it's not a date. So go on with your planned get together with her. I also suggest going to only one place, so just the art walk. Then ask her on a date, days later. That's the only way to find out if she likes you more than a friend. Edited October 2, 2013 by Woop1337
Author in_awe Posted October 2, 2013 Author Posted October 2, 2013 I guess I'll just see how it goes and try to get a feel for what she is thinking. Its hard for me to pick up on the subtle things.
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