Scarlett_girl Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 today was the worst day ever! I see my dude after class and ask him how his week end was..he responds with "terrible" so I say "too much essay writing!" and he says "too much of everything" as we then proceed to walk to his next class(we've always done this) he says he has to go to the bathroom and just leaves! so i figured he had a terrible week and maybe needed someone to talk to..so i saw him later and said "you look like you had a rough week end i figured you might like someone to talk to" he said "It was terrible, i don't want to talk about it. I have to go get notes from my prof c ya" and walks away! WHAT THE HELL ..we went from having coffe for 3 hours together and emailing each other to this?!?!?!? what could have happened???!?!?!?!? help..i feel reallly really bad..i'm at a lost for what i should do
Merin Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Originally posted by Scarlett_girl today was the worst day ever! I see my dude after class and ask him how his week end was..he responds with "terrible" so I say "too much essay writing!" and he says "too much of everything" as we then proceed to walk to his next class(we've always done this) he says he has to go to the bathroom and just leaves! so i figured he had a terrible week and maybe needed someone to talk to..so i saw him later and said "you look like you had a rough week end i figured you might like someone to talk to" he said "It was terrible, i don't want to talk about it. I have to go get notes from my prof c ya" and walks away! WHAT THE HELL ..we went from having coffe for 3 hours together and emailing each other to this?!?!?!? what could have happened???!?!?!?!? help..i feel reallly really bad..i'm at a lost for what i should do Give him his time to be alone.. You've offered your ears and your shoulder.. he doesn't want to talk right now, so leave things alone. I doubt it has anything to do with you.. try not to take it personally.. I know it's hard.
Just Visiting Posted November 29, 2004 Posted November 29, 2004 Don't take it personally. Just wait it out. Once he is ready to talk, he will come back. Don't hound him either for answers, it will make it worse.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted November 30, 2004 Author Posted November 30, 2004 ok..so i'm not taking it personally..i'll just wait until I see him tomorrow in class and see how he acts then..if he is still weird though..what should I do?? do i just ignore what happend on monday or should I ask if he is feelinge better??
gwennebe Posted November 30, 2004 Posted November 30, 2004 RELAX!!! You can't beat yourself up over this kind of stuff. I'm sure he is just stressed out and feeling grouchy. I woulnd't keep bothering him. Let him come to you to talk the next time.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted December 2, 2004 Author Posted December 2, 2004 so yesteday was the last class of the class the dude and I have together and he didn't come to class..i figured it was cuz he was probably studying for his final on friday knowing that he works today..whic makes sense..but the thing is...i need notes from him and he needs notes from me so I called his house and left a msg with his roomie but he did not call back yesterday.. now i'm at a loss for what to do..i'm not calling again..but i need those notes and i know he needs mine so..what to do?? am I totally stressing over nothing or is this just plain weird to anyone?? why are guys soo bizarre?? I thought at first maybe he like totally stopped liking me after coffee but he emailed me right after coffee for no apparent reason so..i don't think that's it..UGH!
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