youcanever Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Pals, My ex broke up with me 4.5 months ago and it was an on and off relationship for 5 months. It was a painful 3 months after breakup. She just tore my heart apart. But after starting hitting the gym and girls started to seem attractive again and picking new hobbies i realised that i dont love her anymore, i have no feeling towards her emotionally, not even a lil bit, i just miss sex with her. I still do but i am moving on. People say you shouldnt start a relationship before you get over your ex. They are right but i just miss her sexuallly. If she wants to get back i dont take her back. Dont want her. Even she called me last week today and talked to me friendly after 2.5 months of she said "get out of my life" which i took the promise. And i felt nothing while talking to her. Well after talking i felt confused but i dont even like her. She was like a relative who i havent heard for years. Anyway, i met a girl lastweek in another city which i go occasionally for work and we spent 5 days in a row and slept together at the last day. No sex but lots of kissing and sleeping togethe and too much emotion. I think i am falling for this girl. She is calm, we have lots of common interests, she is emotional as i am and very easy going while expressing them(my ex was opposite of it. She was never emotional). Anyway, she is comin to my city this weekend to see me. I liked this idea too much. She is a total free spirit but the only thing that bothers me a lil is that she is a virgin. She doesn say she wont have sex but she wants to hold it till she feels totally comfortable for it. Even when we were kissing she felt shy when i touched grab her butt. And she is almost 24. Is it bad? Well as i said i like her and i can wait for it. Also i learned a lo from my exs. I slept all of them in max 3 meetings and all relationships ended terribly. They were only based on sex. I realised that after breakups. Now what i learned from past is that, never put her in the middle of your universe. Dont get jealous, if she will cheat she will cheat, cant stop it so dont think about it, just enjoy your time with her. Talk to other girls but not flirtious but talk. Dont give up on your hobbies like gym or dancing. Am i missing anything? Anyone want to give advice? I'd appreciate every little idea.
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