Aero-el Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Hi all, Asked this gal to accompany me to an art reception at a local gallery. It's this coming Saturday so I was wondering when I should confirm the date with her. Should I call her two days ahead? On the day of? The more details the merrier; I don't care if you write the next Great American Novel as long as it pertains to this situation. Thanks all!
D-Lish Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Don't confirm the day of the event. When did you ask her, when did she agree, how long has it been since you asked and she agreed... Have you had any contact since the invite...
Author Aero-el Posted October 1, 2013 Author Posted October 1, 2013 Don't confirm the day of the event. When did you ask her, when did she agree, how long has it been since you asked and she agreed... Have you had any contact since the invite... Why not confirm on day of? Reasoning? It was yesterday I asked and she agreed. That was the last time we had contact and should have any other contact until Saturday.
clia Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Is this a date? It's just too much time to go by between Monday and Saturday. If a guy asked me out on Monday and I didn't hear from him until Saturday, I would seriously be wondering on Thursday or Friday if we were still on. (People flake so much nowadays that it isn't just a given.) If I were you, I would briefly touch base with her on Wednesday, and then confirm with her on Friday what the plan is for Saturday.
Author Aero-el Posted October 1, 2013 Author Posted October 1, 2013 Is this a date? It's just too much time to go by between Monday and Saturday. If a guy asked me out on Monday and I didn't hear from him until Saturday, I would seriously be wondering on Thursday or Friday if we were still on. (People flake so much nowadays that it isn't just a given.) If I were you, I would briefly touch base with her on Wednesday, and then confirm with her on Friday what the plan is for Saturday. What do you mean "is this a date"? Should I text on Wednesday and call on Friday? What you said about the no contact from Mon to Sat makes sense.
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