Whether or not to tell

[2sure]

My ex was responsible for PAYING a portion of our daughter's medial and educational expenses. As the primary custodial parent, the decisions were mine.

 

You need to see an attorney, just so you have the facts should you choose that route.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

 

And why wait until OP's son is 5 and THEN the BS finds out. That will only fuel the fire, and there's no way to keep the child a secret forever.

 

 

This is precisely the incentive for the husband to fess-up to his affair, and to his child.

 

It remains no place at all of the other woman's to tell anything to the wife.

 

 

(gee, maybe the two of them will be chummy for all time... or maybe the wife will go-off on the woman, because she is too narrow-minded to understand that her husband is the sole culprit where she is concerned)