deni9 Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 (edited) So I broke up with my bf. Reason was because he was overly too much for me. He was so too obsessed. constantly being lovey dovey. which it was cute at the beginning and all. but it got really annoying. he is very clingy and always want my full attention. I couldn't even look at guys. let alone talk to close family friend guys. He tried controlling. I just couldn't take it. it was too much for me I guess when I we started talking and even now I feel like he is perfect. like he gives me all the attention and affection..maybe too much, and any girl would probably like that. but I guess im the one who is messed up. it was just annoying Now my close friends didn't really like him, they thought he was immature, and felt I can do better. my sibling weren't really a big fan of him either idk the more negative I heard about him by differ ppl the more I started to believe it now lets rewind, when we started talking; I would push him away, telling him I didn't want anything (since I got out of an abusive, manipulative, horrendous relationship of two years) and I didn't want to, but he always stook by my side. Little by little I was putting my walls down, till he did something so stupid. (it was little but he should of known better because little things can lead to big things) and I put it back up. but idk, I constantly would try to break up with him but he never really let me, because then I would feel bad and think im such a horrible person for trying to leave him. since he is a nice, caring, sensitive guy. but lately, I just felt NOT happy with him and I don't know why. Hes a really great guy, but Im just scared. and confused. like I know I can give him everything he wants, but I hold myself from doing it. I told him I needed space. and of course that didn't go well. he was saying that all I wanted was to live the single life and talk to other guys and do anything I want (since he wouldn't allow me to do certain things) but I just really want to breath a bit and know what I really want I know I hurt him by doing this... can anyone tell me if im doing the right thing, cause to be honest, I cant think straight. im blinded. and I hope im not just taking him for granted, cause he makes me feel like I am. he told me I would never find a guy like him...etc. and then tells me that he doesn't care whatever... gosh I feel horrible. maybe I did do something wrong.... I really do care for him....and I don't want to hurt him...I just needed my space Edited October 1, 2013 by deni9
wanda51 Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 Knowing that you are making a right decision is that you are not having doubt for what you did .If you have a doubt well you made a wrong decision.
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