johndoes Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 My ex has been using me lately. She hasn't said it but I know that is all it was. A couple weeks ago we ended up being at the same bar (not on purpose) and went home together and hooked up. Didn't hear a word from here for the next two weeks. Then again we end up being at a different bar again but I went home by myself. Sure enough she calls when she is outside my place and sure enough I go home with her. But this time I stopped myself from going any further than making out. Each time we wake up and hang out for a couple hours just talking and flirting but I never hear back from her. She knows I like her and want to work things out. Should I talk to her and tell her that she needs to just leave me alone and stay out of my life or is it pointless
StrongLass Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 If she wants you back but you're just going along for the ride then yes, it is absolutely time to call it quits. Delete her number & STOP going to the same bars as her when it's likely she'll be there.
h0000 Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 You mean she used you as sex buddy? If you still want things to work out then talk to her. Otherwise you can just control your own penis? You dont owe her an explanation you know.
AnyaNova Posted October 1, 2013 Posted October 1, 2013 For your own healing, I would really recommend NC. Do you want to be with someone who would use you so callously, when she knows you still have feelings? I mean, intellectually, of course. Since obviously a part of you does want to be with her.
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