Angry bird Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 The Ex called today. We spoke for almost an hour , at first we made mutual apologies again and then we shared our summer experiences. I am so happy to be friends with him, we make better friends than lovers. So, I didn't get him "back", but to speak to him freely was so great. I'm cool with being friends.
Mariposa10 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 When did you guys break up? And was he the one who broke up with you?
Author Angry bird Posted September 30, 2013 Author Posted September 30, 2013 3.5 months ago. Yeah, he broke it off with me. Now he says he was confused and there was another girl in the picture as well as a 1000 mile distance. He's a really fun guy, so talking to him is fun. He's recovering from an eventful summer, a lot of drama. Happy I was not apart of it. I'm not into having a relationship with him. I still love him of course. But, the 60 day no contact helped regain my footing and perspective emotionally.
Mariposa10 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 3.5 months ago. Yeah, he broke it off with me. Now he says he was confused and there was another girl in the picture as well as a 1000 mile distance. He's a really fun guy, so talking to him is fun. He's recovering from an eventful summer, a lot of drama. Happy I was not apart of it. I'm not into having a relationship with him. I still love him of course. But, the 60 day no contact helped regain my footing and perspective emotionally. I'm curious, why wouldn't you want to get back together with him? (I'm not saying you should) but isn't hard to be friends with someone you love after all that pain you know the girl that used to be in the picture.... is the distance still there? 1
Author Angry bird Posted September 30, 2013 Author Posted September 30, 2013 Why? Because he is not good in relationships. Those are his own words. And through my experience with him, he is right. I would be setting myself up for heart break. But, he is a fun guy and gorgeous looking, so he has tons of women chasing him. I think the recent ex he broke up with me for got fed up, so he broke it off with her. Yes, HE broke up with her. he is very charming and fun, but he is a heart breaker. I'd rather be on the outside looking in. There is always drama with women and him...as long as it ain't me, we're good;)
HorseLuck Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 3.5 months ago. Yeah, he broke it off with me. Now he says he was confused and there was another girl in the picture as well as a 1000 mile distance. He's a really fun guy, so talking to him is fun. He's recovering from an eventful summer, a lot of drama. Happy I was not apart of it. I'm not into having a relationship with him. I still love him of course. But, the 60 day no contact helped regain my footing and perspective emotionally. That's great. I hope the friendship works out for you.
Author Angry bird Posted September 30, 2013 Author Posted September 30, 2013 I'm not going to kid myself and think that we are going to be besties. Most guys, when they find a new "love" they don't need a female friend anymore and their new girlfriend won't be to happy about that either. I'm not oblivious to that at all. But, it's nice to not hate an ex. I am friends with all my X's with one exception.
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