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:(hi there i apologise for my grammer straight away i was going out with my gf for 4 years in the final tw years i changed i was unhappy and started communicating less which caused the eventual to happen i actually take full blame and we would argue and id say if you want me to change back you have to change as well as i said iv taken full responsibility for my actions we broke up a week ago but she has been in pretty much daily contact with me i did all the things your not meant to do and continue to do the wrong things like asking her back and all that well anyway now you have a little back story this is my dilemma id love to have her back im actually happy again the thing that made me unhappy i sorted out but i dont know if she wants me back her stuff is still at mine i offered to take it all to hers but then realised there was so much there'd be no way to move it all at once so i asked her if she could arrange something she then said she couldn't i took her of Facebook but she still spoke to me and keeps pushing being friends i saw her today when i had to drop off her stuff it didnt seem akward i ovesly wanted to grab her but i restrained myself she seemed like she was remaining strong but you could see there was more she wanted to say and the convo just seemed to revolve round life in general she tld me she was doing all these new things the other day but i found out she actually hadnt also she was out in town last night and saw one of my friends and was being very inquistive about me i asked her out for coffee a few days ago and she accepted we havnt had the coffee yet she will post on facebook all the movies she is watching and it seems she just stays in most days and locks her self away i recived a random text saying she was seeing someone so i asked her and she hit the roof am i looking at this all wrong is this her getting over me or is there maybe somthing still there i think its the one question i need an answer to so i know what to do because her stuff is in my flat it makes it a little harder she said she can come get it little by little i thought abut nc but i gt drunk and was attacked helping a girl who was screaming rape so took the hits so she could get away i messaged my exgf as its somthing i would have done in the past she had genuine concern then ovesly from a caring perspective my questin is what shuld be my next move as i could of missed many signs she may need mre time and i may push her further away if i do this wrong i genuinly have changed got back to the old me she fell in love with i just think im now stuck and need some guidance