i really need help

[NoBody]

hey i really need help if any one has advise

 

Well i have started talking to an old friend like 4 months ago and like 2 months ago we started going out but soon after we broke up her freinds and mine said we were still "seeing each other" but we were not going out and i could never get over her. like 3 or 4 days ago she said she really liked me so i asked her out and her freinds talked her out of it becouse she hates me and she doesnt want this girl going out with me so i didnt think too much becouse i dont wanna get inbetween her n her best freind. but 2 days later she ims me online n calls me telling me that she was at a guys house all day i didnt think to much of it till yesterday when she had told me she kissed him once than a veiw hours later she kissd him more,,, the next mornign she had told me that they have been going out sence last night and that he broke up with her and now she started acting all for me again so i gave in and started to like her again... now today after school she promised to see me n at the last minute changed her plains to go out with these to guys for the day and i just dont know what to do anymore i mean i think i might love her becouse nomatter what people tell me i always run back to her ... can someone plzz give me advise on how to slowley stop becouse ive tryd not tling to her n i cant not talk to her i mean i really wanna be with her but i do not think that she will ever really go for me can somoen plz help me

[MelodyJ]

Threads with no replies are sad so I will give you my 2 cents. You are obviously young, high school even? Move on honey, move on. It sounds like she is playing with you because you do always come running back when ever she feels like it. Don't let anyone have that much power over you. Thats what I tell my kids. Concentrate on friends and fun now, there are years of getting your heart broken lying ahead. The best advice will come from your peers I believe. My kids go on "myspace.com" everyone there is btwn 13-25? Even that is a little too old. They chat about crap all night about everything. Some of the members are local bands, that kind of stuff. Pictures of each other. You might like it. You do have to say you are 18 to sign up though, after that no one cares. You will make new friends from all over. Just post a pic and ask to be someones friend, I make my daughter accept everyone because I think kids need each other. If the person turns weird, she just deletes them from her e-m list, but they are still there. If you are not that young, then I apologize, but you sound it.

[morrigan]

You don't need this much drama in your life. This girl basically acts hot and cold towards you. Whether or not she likes you depends on what her friends think about it or if there is another guy around she can date. It's immature and you shouldn't wait around for her to grow up.

 

Stop contacting her, no emails, no text msgs, no phone calls or hanging out together. It'll be easier to get over her if you aren't around her all the time. It also sends the clear signal that she can't expect you to be there at her beck and call. If she calls you up, tell her you are busy.

 

Hang out with other friends, go to movies, concerts, go on the chat room Ms. M suggested. You will meet other girls who will want to get to know you better.