malin819 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 First off I'll like to tip my hat to Barky for those advices. If you read my previous threads you'll see that my ex clearly messed with my head and I was in a abusive relationship. I hanged on to her since my self esteem was at low point and I thought I would never find someone else again. Go out guys and girls!! Spend time with buddies to change your mind...no point staying home and crying all day thinking about the person that broke her heart? Why would you give her that satisfaction seriously?! I went out Friday and Saturday night with some buddies and drank a few. I already know I'm a good looking guy and look in shape. I approached a few womans and guess what? I had a blast since they were interested in me. When I came back from both night I realized it wasn't the end of the work losing my ex. They are plenty of fish in the sea IF you decide to dive in head first. So please stop thinking about and crying over your ex...its done! You have your own life to reshape now without him/her in the picture. Its called ME time and you better start enjoying it 3
barky2 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 My pleasure if I helped in anyway. What everyone seems to forget about is being single is a blast. No checking in Doing literally whatever you want...when you want..and with who you want. Getting out of the house and out of your comfort zone is crucial in moving forward. Ive said it a million times, I use to go out and have women buy ME drinks. Take em home? Maybe. Just any interaction with the outside world helps big time Im glad to see things turning around for you,keep putting in work man and ull be greatly rewarded. Barky
Author malin819 Posted September 30, 2013 Author Posted September 30, 2013 IF i can add one more thing...when your friends offer you to go out somewhere, don't even think about it just go!!! Gotta put yourself out there...no one will do it for you
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