barky2 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Go no contact before your heart is broken Barky 1
Chi townD Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 It was her.. She just called telling me she was sorry for not calling back last night because she fell asleep(BS), that she is on her way home and that she will call me when she gets there. she said I love you..I said yea ok and hung up on her.. I want to work this out, but I cant have her walking on me at the same time..when she calls she said we gonna talk about this weekend, how do i treat it...I already know the story cause her friend snitched her(she doesnt know that). Yep! Kinda figured. Chances are she was feeling curious about these other guys and wanted to check out that scene. BUT! She needed to get rid of you so if anything happened with one of these guys...well, she wouldn't have to feel guilty about it because technically, you were on a break! So, you can't get mad! But, if nothing was going to happen with these guys. Well, she had you waiting on the sidelines.... But, nevermind all of that. Stick with the facts. She was out with other men while you were only on a break. She got mad because you caught her and she didn't have a valid excuse ready when you confronted her. SO, like any animal caught in a corner. She got mad, caused a fight and got off the phone with you as fast as she could! Now, she's had time to think. She's got some BS story ready for you and wants to tell you. Remember, taking a break= breaking up. Screw her excuses and move on. DOn't even bother listening to her stories. 2
barky2 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Yep! Kinda figured. Chances are she was feeling curious about these other guys and wanted to check out that scene. BUT! She needed to get rid of you so if anything happened with one of these guys...well, she wouldn't have to feel guilty about it because technically, you were on a break! So, you can't get mad! But, if nothing was going to happen with these guys. Well, she had you waiting on the sidelines.... But, nevermind all of that. Stick with the faYou'd yous. She was out with other men while you were only on a break. She got mad because you caught her and she didn't have a valid excuse ready when you confronted her. SO, like any animal caught in a corner. She got mad, caused a fight and got off the phone with you as fast as she could! Now, she's had time to think. She's got some BS story ready for you and wants to tell you. Remember, taking a break= breaking up. Screw her excuses and move on. DOn't even bother listening to her stories. Op, you might not want to believe it or be nieve, but reread this by chitown. This is your situation,in words,infront of your eyes. Re read this a few times to let it sink in,this is why i said to let go and move on now and save your heart the pain. Barky
Author flacss7410 Posted September 30, 2013 Author Posted September 30, 2013 I think everyone can understand the stage im in, Im sure everyone has been there so everyone knows its really hard to do what obviously needs to be done. Im going to wait it out.not contact her for nothing. and see what kind of story dhe feeds me..I know the asic truth so i will know if its bs or not. then I think i need to get her to admit what she wants from this..if she still wants a break...i agree im out..if she wants to be with me whats the hold up..she is a bit younger but shes not stupid. she knows what shes doing. Ill keep everyone updated...thanks so much for the advice..it helps
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