robaday Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Gone on two dates with someone. Both have gone great, shes really cool, ive had a good time and theres mutual attraction. Problem is my life is so hectic right now. I work full time, study part time, play for a decent football team, and am also in boxing training 3 times a week. I dont want to jerk her around, but nor can I compromise on those things right now Obviously were not in a relationship....but ive already had to decline two dates with her because Im so busy.....what would you do? shes a cool girl!
todreaminblue Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 You dont have the time so be honest and dont waste her time by dragging it out...that would be respectful...if you truly care about someone you make time when there seems to be none you make them a priority ...your life as is now is more important to you so keep it that way.....best wishes...deb
Mascara Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 If you can't compromise on any of those things, you should probably not be seeing anyone. Bear in mind though, when you tell her she's going to think it's a line - a guy who won't drop even one boxing session out of three doesn't sound that into her.
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