FriedRice Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) Well, i pretty much went against everyone else on here and decided to meet up with my ex to give her some of her stuff back...we grabbed dinner together last saturday after 5 weeks since the breakup and after 2-3weeks of no contact. The first time i met her, she gave me the cold shoulder look and pretty much acted cold towards me throughout the night. we were able to catch up with each other about our lives and what we have been up to. we had a pretty steady conversation with barely any awkward silent...though she still had that cold look on her face and act like she didnt really want to have dinner with me. After dinner i was able to convince her to drop by and grab some bubble tea nearby for about 15minutes. i notice that while we were talking to each other, 90% of the time she never look at me in the eye whenever she talked to me. i guess she felt guilty for hurting me and didnt want to make any eye contact since she was the one that broke up with me. i was curious to why she did that but never really asked her because i didnt want to ruin anything for us. Well after bubble tea, we got to her car and she drove me to the nearby bus stop. when we came to the end of our night, i hugged her while i was in her car and told her that i still love her and that i will always be there for her and if shes okay then ill be okay because i know that she will be happy. then i gave her a small cheek kiss as i pulled away from the hug. after that i texted her to see if shes home safe and we exchanged some texts until i answered with a short reply and she pretty much ignored it from that point on. Overall, i was happy to see that she has finally moved on and it made me realize that i should do the same. I still love her, but i was glad that i didnt jump right back to square one after the hangout. i felt some closure after the hangout knowing that i have no more chance with her and that it did really truly end between us. i initiated no contact again on sunday and hope to keep it that way until i have completely moved on. I just wanted to share with everyone about my story and how it isnt always a bad idea to meet up with your ex if you are looking for that closure or if you want to be sure that she has moved on. Edited September 30, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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