Luigi13 Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 Past: This girl is new at our school and no one really knows anything about her and she tells me I'm cute on facebook. The next 3 days she is always messaging me and then I ask her to hang out in which she says ok. We hung out and she told me a lot of things about her and I felt real bad because from what she was telling me, she didn't have a great younger life because of parents ect. and so I believed her. As time goes on I try to get her to hang out with me and she kept telling me she wasn't at home, with a friend, sick or any excuse to not hang with me and I find out she has a bf. The next day she said they broke up. So from what I knew, they were over but I guess that's not the case. I didn't know they were together at the time so she asks if she can stay the night.? I was like ok, it won't hurt so she stayed and we just cuddled all night, nothing major. but to me I thought about her and I felt her sink into me and I felt like I was the only thing that is keeping her mind straight so I thought it meant a lot to her. (This was 3 days ago) and I finally started liking her, and trust me, I don't go for sluts, girls that party or anything but I heard ppl say she was a whore but if that was the case she would have tried to get me to have sex right? Idk if this has anything to do with it but once I woke up she asked if i was a virgin and what not and I told her yes. That is the truth to. But I didn't know if she didn't want to do it cause she was a whore and didn't want me to lose my v card to her or what but we did nothing. Didn't talk to her for like 2 days and I wasn't worried, she said she wasn't with her bf anymore and that's all I knew. But next day (yesterday) I go to the fair and one girl asks me if me and sarah (the girl i've been talking about) were talking and I said yeah, kinda. Then boom the girl that asked, says I'm telling her bf and I was like No Way! Then to find out she was still dating him and i get told she cheated on him and that she was a slut and I got so upset and couldn't believe it. She said her bf which I thought she wasn't dating cheated on her and hit her and that she was done with him and to find out their together killed me. Then a few minutes later her bf calls me and ask's me what happened between me and her and I told him the truth in that was we did nothing. so then sarah calls me asking what i told him and begging me to tell him lies and I told her that you lied to me and I can't help you so i look like that bad guy cuz I am not that I promise. but i'm so great of a guy in all honesty that I wanted to help her out even tho she did that to me cuz she was crying and I've never felt so bad. and I was so mad and lost I didn't know what to do cuz for once I actually started liking this girl then to find out she's nothing like she said crushes me bad. Today: she txt's me asking if i talked to him and i said yes blah blah blah and she calls me crying telling me that she liked me so much and she told me she was single so that i would talk to her and we would date but then she says I gotta talk to matt (bf) and I lost it big time, I haven't stopped thinking about it so I thought that she was going to be done with him, tell me the truth about everything and it would all be the past but no. I msg her on fb and I said it's either me or him and that if it's not me please tell me so I can quit worrying cuz it's all that has been on my mind since. So I thought they would be done and we would start talking and everything would be perfect and then she messages me saying : i dont want anyone just him i love matt. Im sorry. I gtg please just leave me alone i need to take a break and breath. Bye) I couldn't believe it... that was after I told her that who ever she chooses we could still be friends or whatever. I would never try to get with another guys girl NEVER. And it is so bad to me because I thought she liked me, i mean that's what she "dumped" him for. For Me!? and then out of no where she just tells me she loves him and tells me to leave her alone. Like why?? I did nothing wrong at all. I let her come and sleep at my house cuz she told me she was single, I wouldn't have thought to let her if i knew she were still dating this guy! but then she's mad at me like it's my fault there broke up!? She lied straight to my face and I didn't even know till now.... I don't care that she chose him but she just practically says F off like I did it on purpose. That's exactly what I didn't want to happen. Now I don't have a homecoming date and I was wanting her to be my first. Out of no where everything that seemed so good just went wrong so fast I still care about her but she has no feelings I guess for me. Just lied about everything.. I didn't know the truth, no one did! chh like i need help, I'm so down at this point like No HC date, not going to be close to another girl for a while... I just can't take this. Wasn't fun to read but if so what do I do? I can't stop thinking about the whole situation no matter how hard I try! I let my self get played... I just don't know anymore, Please Help! I get that it's just another slutty story and it wouldn't seem like a big deal to most but still... It means more to me than that. Anything you can tell me will help. I need this off my mind A.S.A.P. Ask any questions and I'll answer them 100% honestly.
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