BabyBash Posted September 30, 2013 Posted September 30, 2013 I wanted to give you some advice. I'm a guy who has gone from having terrible confidence issues in the past to getting much much better in that aspect now. Forget all the BS, when it comes to dating for men, confidence is like 99% of the game. I know guys who have done very well in dating who have nothing going for themselves except confidence What has helped me is just loving myself, forgiving myself for my flaws/past screwups and focusing on my positive traits/trying to add to my positive traits everyday. I think most guys struggling with confidence are like that because they tend to be very harsh self critics, they obsess on their negatives/past mistakes. I think people tend to be harsher critics of themselves than the outside world is The key to success in dating starts with yourself. The way we feel is contagious to outside parties - if you feel happy and confident and comfortable, then girls talking to you will feel the same way and will want to be around you all the time. Once you just focus on doing this everytime, dating success comes naturally instead of forcing it Also I love this quote "Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again." 2
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