crim- son Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 I'm a strong Buddhist, and he's a STRONG Catholic. We met 5 months ago (we're both 22), and the moment we met and talked and got to know each other, we both felt this incredibly, deep and strong out-of-this-world perfect emotional and mental connection. And as the days passed by, we fell madly in love with each other and we both felt we met our soulmates. Our love was of the pure and innocent type at first, but as months passed by, we started to feel sexually attracted to each other. At first we both thought it was perfect because we were glad the relationship didn't start off that way, so we felt that spoke volumes about how tight we were. Ever since we entered the sexual phase of our relationship, he often felt guilty of his thoughts and at times his actions, as it is strictly prohibited in the Catholic church. He's extremely noble and very close to God and has also in the past considered being a priest. It was a constant tug of war in his head between keeping away from those desires and acting on his thoughts. I have told him many times that I was willing to support his path of purity, keeping our relationship beautiful and innocent like it used to be, but temptations did arise from his part, after which again he'd feel very guilty. After a month of this, he told me all of a sudden that he can't do this with me, that he wanted to break up and that we should be friends. He can't keep sinning he told me. He said that no matter what I say to support him, it's him who can't seem to control himself in the relationship and it's better this way. I could barely believe that the man who loved me soo much, and said I was his soulmate was willing to drop me instantly. After much reflection, I realized that this must have been REALLY eating him up inside all along. 'He is so helpless right now' I thought, I felt sad for my angel So I told him I love him and that I support him. And i backed off. I haven't spoken to him for 2 weeks now. I feel like he needs time to clear his mind... For anyone out there reading this, please please tell me.. is this just temporary? I really miss this man and I love him so much, so so much. He's such a beautiful person. I'm willing to not contact him till the day he decides to approach me instead, with the intention of giving him plenty of space to deal with this problem without me being the picture in any way. We both loved each other immensely prior to the break up, he was always sweet and romantic with me. He never found fault with me and never argued with me either. Based on our main cause of break and the dynamics of our relationship, I really would love if someone can tell me... will he come back?
SOLACEMENT Posted September 29, 2013 Posted September 29, 2013 Do yourself a favor and move on. Him being with you isn't allowing him to stay true to his self. Let him move on and don't expect him to come back.
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